why does ghosting hurt so much?

I've just been blocked by a guy who I've only been speaking to for about 7 weeks and only met up once, and I'm finding it difficult. So must be much worse for you!!

It's so rude and immature of them to just suddenly stop. They could just say sorry/ or anything rather than having us overthink what it was we did wrong!!

Do you have any idea if it's something you said?

I actually drove 400 miles (to her and back - 200 miles to her) to see her (call me a simp cos I am) and I thought we had fun and had chemistry.

I am not very open about my feelings so she may have felt unappreciated Idk... but dude... hours spent talking about ourselves, came just to see you (*****y town), she knew how I felt or must have. She told me she really enjoyed our time together and asked me to meet again (she'd come this time), that I'm the closest person in her life and many other things I don't wanna remember cos it feels like steeping on legos.

I think I don't care that much about the reason, she is entitled to ignore me but I keep replaying our conversations in my head, cringe and feel like a dumbass for liking her