Mum says people who shave below are disgusting people

OK but who cares what she thinks, she isn’t going to know if you shave your puss so just do it if you want to.

She's very nosy though

So? Unless she’s demanding to look inside your knickers then she won’t know.

Well she walks in my bedroom without knocking even if I'm getting changed and the bathroom she took the lock off the door

Ok? So don't shave then if you're living in her house it's not a big deal

If you’re afraid she’ll find out and see, don’t do the top (part that you see) and instead do the sides (idk the correct terms for the vagina but like basically i between your legs) and then trim the top so it’s not long long, that way you still have something there and she can’t complain.

the part you see is the mons pubis/veneris

the outer lips are the labia majora (which covers the vulva, the vagina is just the canal)

Ok? So don't shave then if you're living in her house it's not a big deal

how old are you? do you want to remove ALL the hair and have you done it before? what method are you thinking of using i.e. shaving, waxing, etc? have you used these methods elsewhere like on arms or whatever?

Your mum is wrong. I wax down there and it just makes me feel cleaner and since I wash with water, sometimes if you don’t dry yourself then pubic hair makes it carry a smell.

If you’re afraid she’ll find out and see, don’t do the top (part that you see) and instead do the sides (idk the correct terms for the vagina but like basically i between your legs) and then trim the top so it’s not long long, that way you still have something there and she can’t complain.

really tho it’s none of her business, it’s your choice and whatever makes you feel comfortable do it.

If you can’t remove it at all, then trim it all really short.

does she let you remove body hair on your arms etc?

ouuu thanks for the lesson! what’s the WHOLE thing called then since the vagina is just the canal? Like the whole thing including lips holes everything