hi everyone. i kinda need advice right now, if that’s even possible for this situation. my girlfriend, who i have been with for a year and a half now, has recently ended things with me today. her reasons were mainly because of her depression.
it hasn’t been a very good month for the both of us but we always got through her depression together. she’s been and still is whilst making that decision, in a depressive episode and i’ve been struggling with anxiety a lot. she said things were so bad for her right now that she didn’t want a relationship right now, which i totally understand.
we both agreed we should have set boundaries for eachother such as when to talk about how we feel. but she didn’t as she felt her feelings for me fade a little. i dont know if that’s due to her depression and lack of feel for things, because everything was okay apart from the fact we were both struggling and we didn’t set boundaries of when to vent, we just did it.
now i’m unsure of what to do. do i stay by her side and be there for her, hoping things will get better for her and then see what happens? or do i move on completely? even tho i dont think i can do that right now at all.