People instantly hate me social anxiety

Hi, that’s interesting, because people literally hate me. It’s difficult to avoid people at uni because you actually have to live with them - just think it’s sucks that people judge anxiety and don’t even get to know someone - as if my whole personality is the 10 minutes I’ve talked to someone

for them to hate you then something must have seriously gone wrong
if you struggle with interacting then how can you trust your judgement on reading how they respond to you?
you cant please everyone. some folk will dislike you. just gotta find the right people

That must be so difficult, especially as you have to live with them. I struggle with social anxiety too (though I can hide it from most people pretty well so I can make friends with people -though it makes me irritable so I do sometimes flip out). Tbh I know it's hard, but seeing as you haven't done anything wrong I think those people were just not meant for you, it's ultimately there loss if they don't want to get to know you. That's the way I try to think about it anyway. You will find people who will make the effort, even if those people aren't 🙂

Thanks for your response How do you hide it from other people? I think it’s interesting because I don’t know whether others can actually see it or not (my psychologist for example said she can’t see it; others said they think I’m insecure while others say the opposite!!).
What is irritating is when I think I don’t let it show, I act talkative etc but I don’t click with people anyway; most of the times everything worked out but sometimes the whole conversation feels forced/ fake/ as if there’s something I can’t sense; I don’t understand whether people get what social anxiety is at all

Hi I have social anxiety since I was cyber bullied at 11 and was very shy so I didn’t have friends throughout most of my teams.
I’ve learned to love myself, overcome my fear and talk despite feeling like I’m gonna die (every time im around people my heart races, my palms sweat, I can’t breathe)
But I’m talking to people anyway, despite my fear - and have become quite self confident - thing is after all these years of isolation I don’t know how to talk with people - maybe I weird them out idk imo I act pretty normal, my family thinks so too

But yeah people are weird around me, fake smiles, feel embarrassed like I’m a small child or just are reserved; therapy hasn’t helped;

Thing is people don’t even get to know me; when I’m nervous they one time they will be weird around me forever