Friendhsip advice pls :)

So uhhh I am 16 and in year 11 and I got 2 friends but In school theres this big friendship group that has 6/7 girls in that I wanna be wit because I talk to some girls from that friendship group in lessons like twice a week. So uhm I wanna be their friends as I joke and talk to them and I feel like they have my personality and so I feel jealous when they all hang out and I am with my 2 friends as I feel lonely because everyone in my year has big friendships groups. Idk why but I be myself but I am sometimes shy when I talk to them cah I don't know if they actually like me as a friend.

Also I am going to sixth form in September so would want to be part of aa friendship group and not have only 2 friends because I would want fun and bantx too.

I also chat to them on snapchat when it was lockdown lst year and this years lockdown and we used to chat loads but I had no contact on snap now but I still talk to them like in lessons. I am not sure what to do because I do not want to regret not being their friends in the future.

The girls are loud and talk loads and I like that.As I got 2 weeks of school and sixth form transition work to do I feel like hanging out with thm now and being their friends for how much days we have for year 11 but.....

Someone please tell me how I could hang out with them and what I could talk about to them because I have no clue what to talk about lol

should I be their friends or no (big friendship group) ?

thanks for advice would be appreciated x

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burmp

you have this
friends can be yours
have faith
have love
have life

jesus 2.0 xx

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by K_JILL21

you have this
friends can be yours
have faith
have love
have life

jesus 2.0 xx

ahh ok yh i mean

Reply 5

anon1830486

Original post by K_JILL21

you have this
friends can be yours
have faith
have love
have life

jesus 2.0 xx

ohhh ok yh

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

I was part of a big group in Sixth-form, but prior to this, I was in a group for 4/5 in Year 11, and before that I had 1 friend (my best friend).

How close are you with your current 2 friends OP? Being in a big group can be lonely unless you are close with 1 or 2 people in it. If you don't feel close to your current friends, try hanging out with the other group a little and see how you like it.
If you are close to your current friends, it should be a no-brainer. Just stick with them.
Personally, I prefer 1 or 2 close friends, but if you're unhappy in your current friendship, ask someone from the group if they'd mind you hanging out with them for a bit and see what it's like. :smile:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

ohh ok nice and i am close to my 2 friends but i wanna join the big group because i am going sixth form and so i wanna be in a group and not alone rather to be with 2 friends which one friend is going to college and the other to sixth form. I really wanna join their group but not sure if its too late because i wanna join them but not sure how to?? If feel like me in a big group would suit idk why

but can someone give me advice on how could i hang out with the big group because i wanna join them plsss

Reply 8

username5458796

Not all but some big friendship groups are fake and are you willing to risk your two friends for this

Reply 9

anon1830486

Original post by umchileanyways

Not all but some big friendship groups are fake and are you willing to risk your two friends for this

ohh i see yh but th friendship i wanna be in its not fake they don't make drama becuase they have been friends since year 9 anwyay

how could i hang out with them?