Hi guys,
basically I'm in a weird situation and I don't know which path to take from here.
So, I'm in my first year of Uni and I decided to pick a local Uni and stay at home, because of I initially wasn't particularly keen on moving out and had different ideas and underlying values/beliefs of what I'd do with my degree and my life, in general. Plus, because of covid, and we don't really have a culture where kids move out (I come from a South East Asian background), so I didn't bother. But, now, a year on, I have not enjoyed my year at all, it hasn't even felt like I was at Uni, it just felt like I was doing a long online course and I just don't feel like I'm using my full potential and that it's worth the huge amount of loan that it comes with. Also, I'm thinking if I stay at home now, I will never be able to move out and will likely follow the default path of finishing my degree, then getting a job and getting married, and I really don't want that (this might sound absurd to you, but that's how it is in our family).
So, I'm now thinking of transferring to another University so that I can move out and that way, I will experience new things, grow up a bit, be more independent and enjoy the years as well.
However, the problem with that is that my current University is a really good, top ten Russel Group uni, and if I'd transfer, the Unis that would get me in are in the medium to low ranked Universities, so then I'm wondering whether I'm making a mistake by moving out just because of hypothetical assumptions and the want of experiencing new things, and if that would impact my career (I'm studying psychology). Also, I'm quite scared of getting into the process of transferring and applying for accommodation as I haven't ever done that before and it'll already be second year, so I would be in with mates who'd potentially already know each other, although this is a minor issue.
So if you have any advice on what I should do, please do feel free to post your responses and I very much look forward to read them!