Does this mean he’s willing to wait to have sex until when I get ready?

It means he will not respect you when he does take your trousers off. Dump him.

It means he will not respect you when he does take your trousers off. Dump him.

At least she said trousers and not bra....

How on earth do you get that from what he said? It sounds like he's being very respectful.

i find it weird. why would he try to initiate sex then respect you for not going along with it? its like he was testing you to see if you would “put out”.

What do you mean put out

i find it weird. why would he try to initiate sex then respect you for not going along with it? its like he was testing you to see if you would “put out”.

I mean what do you mean he was testing me??

We were making out and things got intense and he wanted to pull my trousers off but I stopped him. Also he knows I’m virgin cause I’ve told him before. Later on we were texting and he said “I was so tempted to take off your trousers” and I replied “I noticed but I want to take it easy” and he said “You did and that’s very good, I respect that!” - does this mean he’s willing to wait until when I get ready?