How can I wear a bikini without my parents knowing
Guys. I’m going out to the beach with three of my male friends but my parents think I’m going work. They don’t like me going out for long, having a guy friend and also wearing shorts, dresses etc cuz they’re religious. I wanna wear a bikini when meeting them as we will be going swimming and all. I’m scared someone I know will see me with 1. Guys and 2. Wearing a bikini. What shall I do?
Who would see you realistically?
just wear it. take a sarong or cover up to throw over on top in case you see anyone you know who might be problematic
just wear it. take a sarong or cover up to throw over on top in case you see anyone you know who might be problematic
Go to a beach far away from both your local area and where your parents friends live.
Can you book a hotel room or airbnb close to the beach so that you will be able to get changed into your swimsuit and have the option of a place to stay?
Good luck!
Can you book a hotel room or airbnb close to the beach so that you will be able to get changed into your swimsuit and have the option of a place to stay?
Good luck!
Original post by Anonymous
Who would see you realistically?
just wear it. take a sarong or cover up to throw over on top in case you see anyone you know who might be problematic
just wear it. take a sarong or cover up to throw over on top in case you see anyone you know who might be problematic
Like relatives and they will literally kick me out of the country if they see me.
Original post by londonmyst
Go to a beach far away from both your local area and where your parents friends live.
Can you book a hotel room or airbnb close to the beach so that you will be able to get changed into your swimsuit and have the option of a place to stay?
Good luck!
Can you book a hotel room or airbnb close to the beach so that you will be able to get changed into your swimsuit and have the option of a place to stay?
Good luck!
I could but I have to be home before 6. And my parents have my card details so they can see where my money goes when I spend it. Thanks though
Can't you just wear it underneath smth and undress at the beach?
Original post by Justaboutalive
Can't you just wear it underneath smth and undress at the beach?
I could do that but my friends want me to change into my bikini whilst I’m at the beach
Original post by Anonymous
I could do that but my friends want me to change into my bikini whilst I’m at the beach
That's what i said tho lol.
And anyways how does you changing at the beach affect them, its not their parents is it.
Original post by Anonymous
I could but I have to be home before 6. And my parents have my card details so they can see where my money goes when I spend it. Thanks though
Trust your gut instinct and always put your safety first.
I understand your situation; as a teen living with parents I got caught wearing a swimsuit and still have to cover the scars with daily makeup.
My mother's violent reflexes were triggered by her cranky religious friends complaints and moral outrage.
Your parents shouldn't have access to your private bank account info or online banking logins.
You may want to consider opening up a new bank account that your parents know nothing about and registering for paper free statements by email.
Good luck!
Original post by londonmyst
Trust your gut instinct and always put your safety first.
I understand your situation; as a teen living with parents I got caught wearing a swimsuit and still have to cover the scars with daily makeup.
My mother's violent reflexes were triggered by her cranky religious friends complaints and moral outrage.
Your parents shouldn't have access to your private bank account info or online banking logins.
You may want to consider opening up a new bank account that your parents know nothing about and registering for paper free statements by email.
Good luck!
I understand your situation; as a teen living with parents I got caught wearing a swimsuit and still have to cover the scars with daily makeup.
My mother's violent reflexes were triggered by her cranky religious friends complaints and moral outrage.
Your parents shouldn't have access to your private bank account info or online banking logins.
You may want to consider opening up a new bank account that your parents know nothing about and registering for paper free statements by email.
Good luck!
Oh noo I’m sorry you shouldn’t have to go through something like that
do you regret wearing one as it will be my first time wearing it.
Original post by Anonymous
I could do that but my friends want me to change into my bikini whilst I’m at the beach
Your friends want you to change into a bikini as opposed to just wearing it? That's a little odd.
(edited 2 years ago)
Original post by Anonymous
Like relatives and they will literally kick me out of the country if they see me.
It's important that you know that your relatives have no power over your being in the UK whatsoever. They are powerless.
Original post by Anonymous
I could do that but my friends want me to change into my bikini whilst I’m at the beach
That sounds a bit odd. It makes more sense to put your bikini on under, say, shorts and a top before you go to the beach.
How old are you by the way?
Original post by Anonymous
I could but I have to be home before 6. And my parents have my card details so they can see where my money goes when I spend it. Thanks though
To do that, they would need access to your bank statement.
How are they managing that?
Original post by Anonymous
Oh noo I’m sorry you shouldn’t have to go through something like that do you regret wearing one as it will be my first time wearing it.
do you regret wearing one as it will be my first time wearing it.I'm fine now, escaped from my parents eight years ago before a levels were over and will probably never speak to them again.
No regrets.
Personally I prefer tankinis to bikinis and other swimsuits.
Original post by Theloniouss
Your friends want you to change into a bikini as opposed to just wearing it? That's a little odd.
Yeah that’s what they told me and they said they’re doing the same
Original post by londonmyst
I'm fine now, escaped from my parents eight years ago before a levels were over and will probably never speak to them again.
No regrets.
Personally I prefer tankinis to bikinis and other swimsuits.
No regrets.
Personally I prefer tankinis to bikinis and other swimsuits.
That’s great at least you have freedom now
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah that’s what they told me and they said they’re doing the same
How do you know these guys?
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