How often should you text / call in the talking stage?

Hey! Just my opinion from past experiences, if the person takes a few days to reply i would suggest maybe they aren't as interested as you think? May sound brutal i know, but if someone is really interested in you they would wanna talk as much as possible (especially during the talking stage) and i mean most people always have their phone to hand. Maybe they are busy who knows but be cautious 😊

So it's actually me, I haven't contacted her for a day or so. She called me at 4am last night but I was asleep. It's my sister's wedding tomorrow so I am really busy.

In my opinion, going a day or two without talking is even better.

Explain to her that you're busy and you might not be able to text her for the next couple of days.

Also who calls someone at 4am to talk without texting beforehand lol

That's what I was thinking, like I know some people think it's a toxic trait. But I like the whole Chase thing and it's nice that she really wants to talk

Not only that but it stops you from just taking your conversations for granted.

Allows you to come back with new and fresh updates and it makes things exciting.