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Should I wait for him?

I met the perfect guy. We have personalities that are perfect for each other. But he has a girlfriend. Before you accuse me, I am not disrespectful, I have shown no interest at all, made no attempts to flirt or anything, whilst he is in a relationship. His relationship is constantly on and off. Should I wait for him or move on? Bearing in mind I have never met someone so perfect.

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any responses?
But what if he doesn’t move on? YOU need to move on.
Move on.
He’s not the “perfect guy”
You’re dreaming.

And next time, maybe wait more than ten minutes before demanding responses.
Original post by Anonymous
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Not to crush your heart but you should probably keep firm distance.

Even if, say, he eventually cuts her off.. there’s going to be still emotional attachments for some time which may or may not affect his relationship with you (that’s if you both got together.)

So you probably should just not interfere with that entirely.

Give it quite some time I’d say.
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Original post by GabiAbi84
Move on.
He’s not the “perfect guy”
You’re dreaming.

And next time, maybe wait more than ten minutes before demanding responses.

I'm worried I'll never find someone so perfect again though. Like I've dated so many guys in my life, I'm 25 now, and never has a guy or a girl been so perfect for me. But he is.
And I wasn't demanding I just wanted it to go back on the recent thread page because otherwise how do people see it (and it worked).
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Original post by CaptainDuckie
Not to crush your heart but you should probably keep firm distance.

Even if, say, he eventually cuts her off.. there’s going to be still emotional attachments for some time which may or may not affect his relationship with you (that’s if you both got together.)

So you probably should just not interfere with that entirely.

Give it quite some time I’d say.

This is definitely what Im scared of. How much time should I give it?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm worried I'll never find someone so perfect again though. Like I've dated so many guys in my life, I'm 25 now, and never has a guy or a girl been so perfect for me. But he is.
And I wasn't demanding I just wanted it to go back on the recent thread page because otherwise how do people see it (and it worked).


You won’t find anyone unless you keep looking.
You don’t know that’s he’s perfect for you at all since you have never been in a relationship with him-you just think he would be.
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Original post by GabiAbi84
You won’t find anyone unless you keep looking.
You don’t know that’s he’s perfect for you at all since you have never been in a relationship with him-you just think he would be.

How do I keep looking?
We were in a kind-of relationship before. It was really complicated.
Original post by Anonymous
This is definitely what Im scared of. How much time should I give it?



It just depends on him really

It could take as long as he finally forgets about her.
Original post by CaptainDuckie
It just depends on him really

It could take as long as he finally forgets about her.

They cheat on each other constantly but there is surely some sort of love there if they keep going back to each other?
He isnt really perfect if he with someone who isn’t u is he ?
Original post by Anonymous
They cheat on each other constantly but there is surely some sort of love there if they keep going back to each other?




Toxic love, maybe.

Quite common, actually. It’s hard to break the trance.
Original post by IlikeDonerKebab
He isnt really perfect if he with someone who isn’t u is he ?

Well he is, I don't think that changes the fact that he's perfect for me.
Original post by CaptainDuckie
Toxic love, maybe.

Quite common, actually. It’s hard to break the trance.

I don't know anything about toxic love, I've never experience it. Is it real love?
Original post by Anonymous
I don't know anything about toxic love, I've never experience it. Is it real love?



nah.
Original post by Anonymous
How do I keep looking?
We were in a kind-of relationship before. It was really complicated.


So he’s cheating on this other girl he’s in a relationship??
Yeah, sounds perfect!
Go out, join clubs, that’s how you keep looking.
Move on from this daydream.
Original post by Anonymous
Well he is, I don't think that changes the fact that he's perfect for me.

He is perfect for u. But that don’t make u perfect for him lol.
Idk but it’s sounds really weird.
Imagine waiting in line for a relationship ….
Original post by GabiAbi84
So he’s cheating on this other girl he’s in a relationship??
Yeah, sounds perfect!
Go out, join clubs, that’s how you keep looking.
Move on from this daydream.

Dude, no need to be so harsh.
I go clubbing about 3 times a week, go to bars too, I use Tinder. I've been doing this for years and never found anyone who remotely compares.
The fact he is cheating on his current gf (and she is doing the same) doesn't bother me. That's not my business.
Original post by Anonymous
He is perfect for u. But that don’t make u perfect for him lol.
Idk but it’s sounds really weird.
Imagine waiting in line for a relationship ….

When you say it like that :laugh:

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