On a scale of 1 - 10 how badly do you think I'm falling for my FWB

if you’re having to question your feelings, the chances are really high that you’ve caught them.

unlucky mate......

I mean he's told me that according to him he felt soo close to me that we would have dated if he stayed in school (he changed schools about a year after we got physical), and I just pushed away the thought saying that we're too different for it to have happened. But now, I'm just really pissed seeing a picture of him and those friends having fun, and I think I'm low key jealous or just missing having him around (It's been 2 years since we last met up in person)

I mean we did more romanticy stuff then most fwb would, and he's been asking me to find ways to meet up with him somehow if not to do stuff, just to hang out because he misses it too. But I've got super strict parents who don't like me talking with boys, and they're super protective over the COVID thing too, which means I won't be able to. And I'm moving away for uni and he's going to uni in a different country and we've talked about meeting up, but the next time we get to properly meet up without my parents knowing would be in another 3 years, and I wish I could see him in person again sooner.

He's been so busy with the uni stuff that he hasn't properly even messaged in 4 days, and I feel stupid for wishing he'd text.

"On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your pain?"
- Baymax

you miss him being around and just the fact that he’s going away is what’s making you want him more.

you’ve definitely caught feelings. Tough, right?

now, even if you got in a relationship with him, would you be willing to commute countries?

Alas 7/10.
It sounds like you have moderately strong feelings for your fwb.
Feelings which are most likely to exacerbate unless you begin to pull away from both him and the fbw arrangement.

Many girls end up feeling heartbroken, angry, used or abandoned when their fwb arrangement ceases.
To avoid this try to gradually restrict physical contact with him and start chatting with other single guys.
That way you are much less likely to feel dependent on one guy for the option of either a casual sex arrangement or much of your social life.
Good luck!

I miss him being around true, but he's been gone for 2 years, I've dated another dude since then but this guys always been around pretty much almost always. (Almost since the guy I dated hated this dude and made me block him, but since that guy and I broke up, I unblocked this dude again and we picked up where we left off from and he wasn't pissed at all).

I miss being able to be with him, just hug or cuddle, or have our alone time.
But I don't wanna catch feelings with this dude, it would never work out, his friends mostly hate me, or have used me in the past.
He pretends to be someone he's not around them, and he says he wouldn't mind what they say if we got together (from the last time he brought up idea of us), but it's not fair.

Commute countries bit wouldn't matter much. We're okay with keeping things digital. It's more of a friendship where we can talk stuff we wouldn't to others when we're horny, and get physical sometimes. He'd be in Canada and I'd be in the UK

Okay. That’s alright, hopefully him going will make you lose the bond with him that you otherwise would have gotten if he was in the UK, since he’d always do stuff that made you catch feelings for him.

I see no issues here. If you want to continue the FWB however, feel free to be commuting countries.

I do feel like it might not be able to work out though since you’re both going to be in a highly social settings so might be more distractions. Have a think through that.