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How do other guys get laid so easily

It's not fair at uni this guy was so good looking he had girls queuing up in halls to shag him one night I saw a girl literally drag him to her room, he doesn't even have to make an effort to get sex, yet this doesn't happen to me I tried improving my looks and socialising but girls don't go near me any advice on how to get a girl?

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You sound like an incel
You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed
Original post by Anonymous
You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed

Wouldn't say thats something to be proud of - sounds like she was reluctant to do so.
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Wouldn't say thats something to be proud of - sounds like she was reluctant to do so.

Even if she was she said yes in the end
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Even if she was she said yes in the end

Kind of comes across as rapey though I am getting strong rape vibes here
(Original post by Anonymous)
It's not fair at uni this guy was so good looking he had girls queuing up in halls to shag him one night I saw a girl literally drag him to her room, he doesn't even have to make an effort to get sex, yet this doesn't happen to me I tried improving my looks and socialising but girls don't go near me any advice on how to get a girl?

You're learning that marketing and sales trumps actual product quality.

At least in terms of getting initial sales.

When it comes to long term happiness in a relationship, that's where product quality comes in - although continued marketing and sales helps in the post honeymoon phase too.

You may never become as much of a womaniser as this other guy. But that's OK. All you need is to be successful enough. And all you need in the long term is to find 1 woman that loves you and is worthy of your love and is compatible with you in the key areas.

If you're socialising it doesn't make sense that girls don't go near you. Assuming you socialise with women as well as men?
If you mean that none so far have been converted into sexual partners then that tells us where you need to focus.

It's all about setting up a dating sales funnel. And in removing any blockages in that funnel.

If you are breaking the ice with an average of 10 women per day, then the mouth of your funnel is fine. And it's then a case of removing any blockages. Which would probably be best done by you studying the practical psychology behind sexual attraction and ammending your inner world and your behaviour and how you speak accordingly.

For me personally I was in the same boat as you in my first term at uni. The big breakthrough for me came when I adjusted my inner world to one where I took myself and my life a lot less seriously than I had done before.

Original post by Anonymous
You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed

If you were changing her mood and not her mind: good job.
If you were trying to use logic / were nagging her into bed - you got lucky.

Also one thing to be very aware of is that if they are too intoxicated, it's rape. And no man should ever get anywhere near to rape.
Plus, the first time that you make love with a woman should be a wonderful and special and lifetime memory event. So zero or one drink is fine. Anything more than that and it subtracts from the specialness.
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You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed

I'm getting rapey vibes ew some men actually think this way? disgusting
Original post by Anonymous
I'm getting rapey vibes ew some men actually think this way? disgusting

A lot of guys at my uni thought buying a girl a drink was a ticket to getting her in bed
Original post by Anonymous
A lot of guys at my uni thought buying a girl a drink was a ticket to getting her in bed

I wish I was a lesbian men just make me more and more disgusted they're so desperate
Original post by Anonymous
I wish I was a lesbian men just make me more and more disgusted they're so desperate

I've also honestly thought about becoming lesbian girls are way tougher than boys these days
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A lot of guys at my uni thought buying a girl a drink was a ticket to getting her in bed

When the reality is that getting a girl to buy you a drink - or making some other investment in you - is a better technique for paving the way to a love making session.

Most guys don't have a clue about effective man to woman marketing and sales.
The day you leave will be a very sad day for me indeed, I’ll miss your jokes
Original post by Anonymous
It's not fair at uni this guy was so good looking he had girls queuing up in halls to shag him one night I saw a girl literally drag him to her room, he doesn't even have to make an effort to get sex, yet this doesn't happen to me I tried improving my looks and socialising but girls don't go near me any advice on how to get a girl?


Go study or something babe,other guys get laid easy cause they are cheap and have no self-control or self-respect for themselves so don't be like them....and they are risking getting diseases
the simple explanation for this is that you’re not attractive enough.

if you’re not an attractive person to the majority, you will have a hard time trying to live that lifestyle.
Another one of these threads.
Original post by Anonymous
You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed


An hour of convincing? Wtfff
Original post by Anonymous
Kind of comes across as rapey though I am getting strong rape vibes here

Defo rapey vibes
Original post by Anonymous
I've also honestly thought about becoming lesbian girls are way tougher than boys these days

you can't just become lesbian like it's a choice weirdo
Original post by Anonymous
You got to do a bit of persuasion, I got talking to a girl in uni after about an hour of convincing her she finally gave in and had sex with me once they had a few drinks many girls are easy to get into bed

Did that "hour of convincing" her that you were capable of a reasonable sexual performance for longer than 6 seconds involve getting your wallet, cards and cash out to offer her a satisfaction guarantee? :tongue:
Or pleading with a combination of more alcohol and a double dose of crybaby, emotional blackmail and playground whining antics?

P.S Congratulations on demonstrating perfect use of the anonymous feature, if I knew your username I'd nominate you for an award. :rofl:

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