He's literally so annoying and I actually don't like him anymore. One day he will be really nice and care so much about my education and make plans for me. But this is also annoying cuz it feels like all he cares about is my education and not actually me. And it's annoying that he's basically taking control of what I do for the rest of the day by making plans.
And then as soon as I disagree with something he suggests, he becomes so angry. Like rn I'm revising for the UCAT and he was helping me with some QR questions I got wrong. And he said oh your mental maths is really bad. You're always using the calculator. But I know how to use the calculator quickly and it doesn't affect me that much. And then he told me to start learning times tables. Like I'm literally 17 rn and I don't want to be spending my time doing this when it's not going to be that useful to me either. There's a calculator literally given in the exam so I don't understand why knowing what 17*8 is going to do to help me pass this exam. So I said no I'm not going to do that, I have limited time left and I can be using it to do something more productive. He got so angry and left and screamed. And he said he's never going to help me again. And that there's no point in even talking to me. Now he's basically not talking to anyone in the family and is going to just stay in 1 room isolated from everyone. He does this like basically every 3/4 months. As soon as I say something he doesn't agree with, he stops talking to the whole family for like 2 months. He doesn't eat the food my mum makes and if someone tries to speak to him, he just ignores them. He can't go in the same room if someone else is also there. And then it gets too much at one point and all the drama comes out and its just really toxic.
I feel like he's putting more pressure on me than helping me and when he does help me with questions and stuff, its not really that helpful either. And now he's not going to talk to anyone for a few months and my UCAT is in a month. Obviously stress can affect this exam.
I don't know what to do like how do I just focus. Because I really don't want to be a puppet where my dad controls how I study. But him ignoring everything and being a toxic ***** is not helping either