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I think i might be gay or are guys just not my thing

So i been with my bf for 10 months now but i just dont see or feel anything like i used to with him after what he did
(nearly broke up with me for his ex who he thought changed and lied and said he barely knew her and didnt want me to see him with her and he said he really regrets it his longest relationship )

So i always thought i might be abit gay i mean i check out girls more than guys never really had many guy mates or text any guys apart from my current bf
Also this current relationship is my first boyfriend so please note that and im not virgin
So i never really play attention to guys but with my bf i did so thats a first
I did date a girl back in school but didnt last long as she was younger and i was close to leaving school and it was more of like puppy love than proper relationship

So i dont talk to my mum about this because she not fan of gays
But anyways its same with porn i only watch lesbian not any with guys in it
But i had a crush on my best mate few years ago but we lost contact 5yrs ago so theres no point trying since she left on block on fb

But im not a girly girl i wear necklace and abit if makeup but no dresses and that i just i dont know never really felt attracted to guys

So moving on to my bf
So im attracted to him but in emotional way if you get what i mean
but the thing is he is physically and sexually and even admitted out of all the girls he had he was only turned on by me but i struggle i cant even imagine s^x with him at all like i used to i can admitted hes most handsome guy i ever saw we do sleep together and kiss and hug
But i dont feel turned on at all i love him but i aint sexually attacted to him

I just dont know if it's because of what he did and the spark aint the same or its because i have lost trust in him but lately i have noticed he doesnt message me as much as he used to its always me that messages first lately

But i dont know i do want the relationship but something aint right with both of us
I feel like i aint attracted to him
I feel to me that he might not want this relationship due to lack of communication with have over text
We usually meet once a week we used to twice but changed since we left college

Just don't know
It is because you arent hanging out with handsome men. If you go for more handsome men then you will be okay
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It is because you arent hanging out with handsome men. If you go for more handsome men then you will be okay

Its not that i think it might be because of what he did
https://youtu.be/ikBrfCUbkfs
Tbh no one can tell u what ur but urself lol
(edited 2 years ago)
hi if it was me i would leave the relationship and focus on myself. you don’t have to label your sexuality. But there is no point prolonging this relationship if u don’t see it going anywhere. Focus on yourself and learn about yourself. Good luck

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