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How soon should I respond to him

This new guy slid into my DMs. How long should I wait before responding? I don't want to seem desperate
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5 mins. Don’t want him to lose interest
As soon as you see it?
I don't get this waiting thing people do, I'm so confused
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Original post by Ten-Ten
5 mins. Don’t want him to lose interest

That's way too soon
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Original post by Satori Tendō
As soon as you see it?
I don't get this waiting thing people do, I'm so confused

I saw It 2minutes after he sent it. It would look too needy if I respond straight away
just reply ffs its a text you wont seem desperate just cos you replied 🙄
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Original post by Anonymous
That's way too soon

No it’s not
Original post by Ten-Ten
5 mins. Don’t want him to lose interest


Original post by Anonymous
That's way too soon

Why would you ask for advice, then dismiss it straight away?
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Original post by tej3141
Why would you ask for advice, then dismiss it straight away?

Doesn’t make sense at all
Original post by Anonymous
I saw It 2minutes after he sent it. It would look too needy if I respond straight away

You replied to me pretty fast and that didn't kill anybody. I don't get why you're so worried about an interaction, going out of your way to orchestrate and manipulate it to this extent. Even I'm exhausted watching you do it.
Original post by Satori Tendō
You replied to me pretty fast and that didn't kill anybody. I don't get why you're so worried about an interaction, going out of your way to orchestrate and manipulate it to this extent. Even I'm exhausted watching you do it.

k.
Don't play games. He'll lose interest. Just respond whenever you see the messages.
Original post by sinfonietta
Don't play games. He'll lose interest. Just respond whenever you see the messages.

thanks

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