Feel like my bf isn’t there for me anymore

He didn’t respond (usually when we message good morning he responds within the half hour) and it had been an hour. Then I rang him when I was in a&e and he picked up and was shocked I was in a&e and was asking questions, he was genuinely concerned. I hung up because it annoyed ne that he didn’t have time to reply to my message.

He kept saying he didn’t see my message, but it had literally been one hour.

hanging up after he, by your own admission, showed genuine concern is a bit like biting the hand that feeds you. an hour, really? yes i definitely think you overreacted

even if he did see it, a message is just a message when the two of you are upset with each other

Yeah but I kind of felt that if we were fine the night before he would’ve messaged/ called wuickly. So it wasn’t fair on me.

Been together 3 years. At the beginning he was super loving & caring, I was too. We’ve had our difficulties recently and have nearly broken up on one occasion.

Anyway recently I had a bad fall one day outdoors. The night before we didn’t say good nights as normal..we were both a bit off. After my fall, I messaged him to tell him I’d fallen.. that was the first contact we had that day. He didn’t respond (usually when we message good morning he responds within the half hour) and it had been an hour. Then I rang him when I was in a&e and he picked up and was shocked I was in a&e and was asking questions, he was genuinely concerned. I hung up because it annoyed ne that he didn’t have time to reply to my message.

He kept saying he didn’t see my message, but it had literally been one hour. Usually he replies back 30 mins later in the morning. I feel like he might not have contacted me because he thought I was dramatising, that it wasn’t as bad as it was or something, or out of spite. However he’s adamant that he didn’t see it and he only saw it after our call.

He told me that if it was that urgent I should’ve called. I don’t feel the blame should be put on me for this tho. Am I overreacting?

Deffo overreacting imo. Yes he may be consistent with 30mins reply, but maybe that particular day he may have had something to do.. or paid a little less attention to his phone. You should always understand your S.O's situation instead of making your own assumptions

He said he was getting ready but usually doesn’t take that long. I just know that if we were fine the night before he would’ve contacted me sooner and that’s not fair

see that is your assumption.. thinking that every time he would have contacted you sooner.

Sometimes **** happens.. maybe his mental health wasn't good or some **** that caused him to check later.. or maybe he was a little tired of you/everyone and just wanted some peace.. he ain't a robot to be responding to you real quick..

I messaged him ‘I’ve just fallen’… I would expect my bf to be there in times of need?

Tbh that message doesn’t have enough clarity to what you mean … or how serious it is.

You fail to understand he also has a life to live and some of it doesn’t revolve around youu. Tbh 1h reply time is good enough… idk why you complaining…