I think I’ve found my soulmate

We were nextdoor neighbours, born a week apart. According to our parents, when we were toddlers we used to play in eachothers gardens and were basically friends. Our parents even chopped down part of the fence so we could come into eachothers gardens whenever we liked. However, after a few years they moved house. We grew apart, and never saw eachother since we were always put in different classes in primary school. However, when I met her again in secondary school, we were instantly attached. It’s been 3 years since then, and we’ve never stopped talking to eachother. Have I met my soulmate?

not really u just live close and have same b days?

the chance of that is very slim, so it doesn’t sound like just a coincidence

There is no coincidence. You are good friends with someone who lives near you, of a similar age and have been friends since childhood. I wouldn't expect much otherwise.

that’s true, i feel like there’s some sort of purpose for it all too but i can’t quite put my finger on it

No. It's not 'some sort of purpose.' You're simply good friends. It doesn't make sense to believe there is a purpose for this. Based on the definition you could become soulmates with many, many people if only you knew them.

read my edit

No. It's not 'some sort of purpose.' You're simply good friends. It doesn't make sense to believe there is a purpose for this. Based on the definition you could become soulmates with many, many people if only you knew them.

what edit?

i edited my post, basically saying that due to her mother’s history with her miscarriages, she was expected to die too but didn’t

maybe i’m confusing soulmates for the term ‘twin-flame’?

Meaning nothing. Has no effect on what I said whatsoever.

means there was a purpose, and it’s fate that’s she’s still alive. fate that we we born next door to eachother. fate that we were born only days apart. how can you tell me there’s no purpose for all that?

We were nextdoor neighbours, born a week apart. According to our parents, when we were toddlers we used to hang out together and were basically friends. Our parents even chopped down part of the fence so we could come into eachothers gardens whenever we liked. However, after a few years they moved house. We grew apart, and never saw eachother since we were always put in different classes in primary school. However, when I met her again in secondary school, we were instantly attached. It’s been 3 years since then, and we’ve never stopped talking to eachother. Have I met my soulmate?

edit: i forgot to add she was basically a miracle baby. her mother previously had a couple miscarriages, so the chances of her surviving would’ve been slim.