Original post by Wildean99Oh cool - I'm similar but probably lean towards the fin de siècle. That being said, I've been doing a Jane Austen binge recently and am half way through Sense and Sensibility at the moment. If it's any consolation for your partner, many people that study in Durham live in Newcastle, which is where I studied and currently live and work, and it's a much bigger city and far from pretentious. Plus, even if you live in Durham, Newcastle is 10 minutes away on the train so can visit as much as you'd like - I often like going there, but to be honest I love Newcastle so much that I don't go loads (unfortunately Newcastle doesn't offer a specific Victorian course, which is what I'm after, but I'd definitely consider going back for PhD - but I digress). Also, just as a last thought on Durham, it is small in comparison with Newcastle, but it is also quite sprawling and there is lots to do. Whilst the university has a prestigious and arguably pretentious reputation, the city itself and the people that live there aren't like that at all. So if you like the idea of living in somewhere with the beautiful, old architecture, but isn't a really posh place then Durham definitely has that in my opinion.
In terms of re-applying this year, I've been a lot slower to getting started than I'd like. In between having to get a job to save for a masters, find somewhere to live and having had laryngitis and food poisoning today, it's been hectic to say the least. Mentally, I've given myself until the end of October because I can reuse a lot of my application, just need to tweak and change some parts - plus I've just got Oxford that I'm probably going to apply for this year so just need to focus on getting that in for the January deadline. So basically what I mean to say is don't stress if you are planning to do things later on, I'm a bit further ahead than some people because of having done it before and only having the one course and university to apply for. What I would say though about the best time for applying is that it depends on your current situation. For you because you've recently graduated, there isn't the same advantages of waiting as long as someone in their final year because, for them, they often need time for their research interests and experiences to develop (my interest in age studies only came after doing a module on it in my second semester of third year for example). That being said, it's definitely not worth rushing and as long as you get in touch with your referees and let them know your plans (which I imagine you've already done having had submitted an application already), then take as much time as you need. Even though you might not have modules this year that would change your interests, there are still lots of experiences that you might have this year that could change and redirect where you want to go so it's worth in some ways staying open to that and allowing yourself the time for things to change. On the other hand, in terms of your own sense of security and being able to plan for the time ahead, it is good not to leave it to the last minute, and also because a lot of places have rolling deadlines, there isn't necessarily a sense of first come first served, but it is good to get applications in earlier rather than later. When I applied to Oxford last year, I got put on the waiting list and my application went in quite late because I was balancing my third year workload and whilst for me I don't think the timing made a difference on me being put on the waiting list, rather than being given an offer, there were other people on waiting lists for different courses that I spoke to on The Student Room that felt as though this was the case for them (as their applications were ranked really strongly and sometimes even had the offer box ticked on their assessment forms that they got back).
So basically what I'm trying to say is don't rush yourself and risk the quality of your application, but also don't leave it too late on in the application cycle. Hopefully this helps and let me know if you have any other specific worries. I think a lot of people feel confused by the application process (myself included and this is my second time!), but hopefully we can help each other out through threads like this!