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Girl invited me round to her house

We've been dating, what should I expect? She's been round to mine before for a meal.

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Original post by Anonymous
We've been dating, what should I expect? She's been round to mine before for a meal.

Depends on what you both want.

Good luck :colone:
Reply 2
Original post by Wired_1800
Depends on what you both want.

Good luck :colone:

What do you mean sorry?
does she want netflix and chill?
Reply 4
Original post by Ducky Donna
does she want netflix and chill?

She never mentioned what we're doing.
Original post by Anonymous
She never mentioned what we're doing.

i think you know what she wants
Reply 6
Original post by Ducky Donna
i think you know what she wants

Why? I don't honestly
sex
Now…if You don’t know and you’re dating her….how are random strangers on the internet going to know what she’s planning/what you should expect…??
Original post by Anonymous
What do you mean sorry?

You know! :bumps:
Original post by GabiAbi84
Now…if You don’t know and you’re dating her….how are random strangers on the internet going to know what she’s planning/what you should expect…??

I'm just unsure and scared of having sex if that's what she wanted
Probably just a meal tbh. I mean you do get free food!
Original post by Anonymous
I'm just unsure and scared of having sex if that's what she wanted


Then that’s a conversation you have with her-no one here knows her intentions by inviting you round.
(edited 2 years ago)
Original post by GabiAbi84
Then that’s a conversation you have with her-no one here knows her intentions by inviting you round.

How do I ask her? Without it seeming weird
Original post by Anonymous
We've been dating, what should I expect? She's been round to mine before for a meal.

Try to go with an open mind.
And try to be not outcome dependent. IE whatever happens, as long as it doesn't result in death or permanent injury or disfiguration, should be seen as a totally fine and cool outcome by you.

Original post by Anonymous
I'm just unsure and scared of having sex if that's what she wanted

Why have you been dating if you're scared of having sex with her?
If either of you are under-age, on no account should you have any form of sex.
If you don't find her attractive enough, physically or compatability wise, you should aim to be a really good platonic friend for her - assuming she's a decent enough person. If she's not a nice person, you should aim to break off spending time with her.

If you're scared because you want to give her the most fantastic time, but you're not confident that you'll be able to do that, then you have an OK attitude. Just do the best you can for her. This could be a great learning experience for you.
Try to focus on her as much as you can. Don't focus on yourself. Her mood, emotions, thoughts, feelings, not yours.
(edited 2 years ago)
So should I take a condom with me just in case?
Original post by Anonymous
So should I take a condom with me just in case?

You should always be packin' some latex heat in your pocket, lad. Never know when you might slip the pool noodle into the Jacuzzi.

God I love making up euphemisms.
Original post by Callicious
You should always be packin' some latex heat in your pocket, lad. Never know when you might slip the pool noodle into the Jacuzzi.

God I love making up euphemisms.

🤣🤣🤣 prsom
Reply 18
Nothing, sit on the chairs in complete silence playing on your phones.
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
I'm just unsure and scared of having sex if that's what she wanted

Why?!

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