parents still hitting me

Anonymous #1

21,female....i hate them but i cant move out

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Anonymous #1

the father to be specific

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username5706823

Original post by Anonymous

21,female....i hate them but i cant move out

Hit them back if you can (bad advise)
I'm sorry you have *****y parents but is there really no way for you to move out? why are they hitting you anyway? purely out of rage or some specific stupid reason?

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Anonymous #1

Original post by summerbirdreads

thank you,nope they are paying for my university so I cant move out,sadly.They hit me when I don't want to accept their views and mindset,they always want to be right,therefore,towards really stupid stuff

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Anonymous #1

Original post by Little pecker

Like in a hot way or painful way?

very painful way,throwing stuff at me and threatening to hit my head on the wall

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username5706823

Original post by Anonymous

Don't mind me asking but are they South Asians/Muslims?

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Anonymous #1

Original post by summerbirdreads

Don't mind me asking but are they South Asians/Muslims?

African/christian

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username5706823

Original post by Anonymous

African/christian

Oh okay.
Do you argue with them when you can't accept their mindset? and what exactly triggers them?

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username5706823

Original post by abdiadnan

When this happened to me, i waited for my dad to fall asleep then I poured boiling water on his bald head and poked him in his eyes as he cried in agony, his screams gave me joy, however this earned me more beatings.

you're giving me ideas lol

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Anonymous #1

Original post by summerbirdreads

Oh okay.
Do you argue with them when you can't accept their mindset? and what exactly triggers them?

nope,i just tell them my views and this angers them cause they probably want me to be like them,cold and arrogant....they get triggered at literally everything that I do that they don't agree with...its really hard to explain

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Anonymous #1

Original post by abdiadnan

an ideaaa lol

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Anonymous #1

Original post by abdiadnan

but i cant do that tho cause I'm a female

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username5706823

Original post by Anonymous

I totally understand. My parents use to be pretty much the same but I stopped arguing or verbally disagreeing with them and this actually really soften them ig like they haven't been extremely mean to me since march, all this is because I play pretend lol and really lay low with them

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abdiadnan

Original post by Anonymous

but i cant do that tho cause I'm a female

why not he's asleep, well u can pour water or just call police and say he touched you guaranteed victory

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Anonymous #2

well just agree with them with everything they say and do. try to connect with them. try to show them love and support for anything they do. they will likely feel embarrassed for being mean to you. they might reduce the violence.

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Reue

Original post by Anonymous

21,female....i hate them but i cant move out

Call the police

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Dunnig Kruger

Original post by Anonymous

If you live in the UK, and quite a few other countries, you are fully entitled to a Student Loan which will cover your tuition fees and living expenses, including rent in student digs.
It's Government Policy that higher education should be open to all, regardless of background, and not just to a priveleged few.

You'll know in what circumstances they hit you. Secretly record them hitting you - eg on your mobile. And then back up the recording.
And then do what you want with it. You could show it to your parents and tell them that they've had the first and final warning to never touch you again.
You could take it to the police. You could take it your uni authorities and get them to house you ASAP.

In almost every country in the world, it is illegal for one adult to hit another, apart from in self defense. Your parents are not hitting you in self defense. It's at least 3 years past the time when their criminal behaviour should have stopped.

I hate bullies. Your parents are subjecting you to a terrible campaign of bullying and domestic violence.
Do not continue to sit there as their target and punchbag.
I bet a lot of the time that they hit you is not because you've done anything wrong, but because they're in a bad mood and want to take it out on someone. With that someone being you as the softest and easiest target.

I just hope that everyone reading this, learns from this story and resolves to never ever hit their children. There are perfectly good discipline techniques - eg the warning and naughty step - that involve no violence whatsoever.