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Like a girl but she's?

I'm a very drawn towards a girl at university. She's really pretty.
But I think our personalities are different. I'm more of a serious and reserved guy with a few close friends whom I socialise with. I do go out for drinks but again, with a close set of friends I have.
I dont mind being alone. Instead, I enjoy my time alone.

She, on the other hand talks a lot. She's friends with the receptionist at university with whom she chats a lot. She greets cleaners, caterers, talks to the library staff, random booksellers who come to sell books. She befriends people very easily and talks so much to them. She will see someone she knows and literally go and tap them and talk.
I overheard her saying she's not extroverted but is ambivert as she does like being alone and getting away from the hustle.

I want to approach her but I feel like our personalities might not work since I'm much more retreated than she is. What if she finds me boring?

Should I give up?
Never know unless you try.
Two people who talk all the time probably wouldn't work.
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Original post by ageshallnot
Two people who talk all the time probably wouldn't work.

What do you mean by this .
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Original post by GabiAbi84
Never know unless you try.

But will this girl find me boring ? I know this as girls find me boring and I don't really connect with party girls.
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What do you mean by this .

Think about jigsaw pieces.
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Think about jigsaw pieces.

But I don't talk much ?
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But I don't talk much ?

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Opposites tend to attract. My girlfriend describes me as a social butterfly and herself as a social moth. Having different personality types is not a bad thing at all. They can complement each other.
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Always trust your gut instinct. :smile:
Often opposites attract.
I'm quiet, reserved, short and average looking.
Have dated plenty of guys that are very outgoing, affectionate, from very different backgrounds and holding contrasting political views.
Original post by Anonymous
But will this girl find me boring ? I know this as girls find me boring and I don't really connect with party girls.


I honestly couldn’t tell you.
I don’t know you and I don’t know her.
But if you don’t talk to her you’ll never know.
Original post by 1582
Opposites tend to attract. My girlfriend describes me as a social butterfly and herself as a social moth. Having different personality types is not a bad thing at all. They can complement each other.

I notice that she looks away quickly but she does notice me
Original post by londonmyst
Always trust your gut instinct. :smile:
Often opposites attract.
I'm quiet, reserved, short and average looking.
Have dated plenty of guys that are very outgoing, affectionate, from very different backgrounds and holding contrasting political views.

I wonder if she will apply it though. She seems so talkative.
Someone seems to want attention?
Original post by Anonymous
I wonder if she will apply it though. She seems so talkative.


Do you know anything about her apart from that she seems to talk a lot?
Original post by GabiAbi84
Do you know anything about her apart from that she seems to talk a lot?

Not much. She's friends with a student I know who said she's a postgrad too and said she's very nice. I didnt ask anything except whether that girl was one of her students or not
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Not much. She's friends with a student I know who said she's a postgrad too and said she's very nice. I didnt ask anything except whether that girl was one of her students or not


So why do you like her then?
All seems a bit superficial to me tbh.
Original post by GabiAbi84
So why do you like her then?
All seems a bit superficial to me tbh.

Attracted. That's how strangers get together I guess if you aren't friends
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Attracted. That's how strangers get together I guess if you aren't friends


So stop making assumptions and go get to know her.
Original post by GabiAbi84
So stop making assumptions and go get to know her.

Will try

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