So I've known my flatmates for about a month now and there's 4 of them, 3 girls 1 boy and they're all quite close together, very outgoing, loud and very messy, I, on the other hand, am fairly shy and more lowkey, I like to go out and socialise but not clubbing every single night being out till 6am like them, they all seem relatively nice in 1 on 1 conversation but I just really don't think they like me, they seem to laugh at me behind my back constantly,
if I message in the group chat or even join in in a convo thats already happening I just get aired, they constantly go out together and do things as a 4 but never invite me, I've tried leaving my door open with a wedge and hanging out in the kitchen but we just have no common ground and nothing to talk about since we have nothing in common,
they will just go into other flatmates rooms and chill with them without warning when theyre bored, and I have made it perfectly clear to them that my door is always unlocked or wedged open, theyre more than welcome to come in but they never do and I go into the hallway and hear like 3 of them in 1 room hanging out and I never go in because I just don't feel welcome and when I have been around them hanging out I've never felt welcome or wanted,
I just end up sitting in my room all day and since I have trouble making friends due to anxiety in the first place I've just spent my time at uni just so lonely and depressed, I'm not an introvert by any means, I love being around people but I'm just bad at talking to people and I really hate being so lonely, it's reaching a breaking point and I don't know what to do
At the moment I'm like 50/50 if I want to leave I'm really torn on it, on one hand maybe I could get along better with my new flatmates if I did move and things would be better, on the other what if it's more of the same and I have even worse flatmates?
Also one of my current flatmates is in my lecture group with me so it would be awkward being in the same lecture room as them, let alone if I bumped into any of them in the building, I also am not sure if I want to leave because I don't know if i'm just overthinking things and I do like them I try to be friends with them but they just don't seem to like me on a personal level, we're just two completely different ends of the personality spectrum
Any help / advice is much appreciated