My Dad shouts at me for everything I do and is making me feel worthless

He says I’m useless, an idiot and an accident. All because he won’t move out of the house after my parents getting a divorce. He’s refusing to look for anywhere. He has all his work computers set up in MY ROOM!!! For the past 2 years I’ve been asking when I can have my room back and he never answers me. He eats in there and it’s honestly disgusting. I’m 17 and have never been able to use my desk because my dads always there. He says I’m useless because I haven’t learnt to drive (even though it’s impossible as my parents won’t give me any money and have spent 10k on a divorce) and also he is annoyed because I don’t have a job (even though I can’t find anything and would be too much with my A Levels) my dads controlling my life, shouting at me all day every day and making me feel worthless.

Mum has nothing to say about this?

In my experience i spent as much time out of the house as possible and put up with him and left for uni. It gets better. Trust me. Don’t give up.

He says I’m useless, an idiot and an accident. All because he won’t move out of the house after my parents getting a divorce. He’s refusing to look for anywhere. He has all his work computers set up in MY ROOM!!! For the past 2 years I’ve been asking when I can have my room back and he never answers me. He eats in there and it’s honestly disgusting. I’m 17 and have never been able to use my desk because my dads always there. He says I’m useless because I haven’t learnt to drive (even though it’s impossible as my parents won’t give me any money and have spent 10k on a divorce) and also he is annoyed because I don’t have a job (even though I can’t find anything and would be too much with my A Levels) my dads controlling my life, shouting at me all day every day and making me feel worthless.

Look I think u should start 2 stand up 4 urself, ur old enough, I'm also in 6thform and understand the stress ur going through. 1st tell him the lazy 1 here is him not u, like seriously y can't he set up he's own room, about the driving tell him what u just said about the money an all. But a part time job will do u well if u decide 2 go ahead with it, it might as well take ur mind off things, I mean no 1 can force u, I'm not working cause my parents r more than happy 2 provide 4 me, I would like an experience tho, so mayb when I start uni I'll do it. Just b patient and do ur thing, something will come 2 light. And everything u said here, say it 2 ur dad, tell him how frustrated u feel, u have the right 2 speak up and say how u feel. U can always ask me 4 more advice if u want

He doesn’t have a room bc of the divorce he sleeps on the sofa but that’s his fault for being too lazy to move out.

Look I think u should start 2 stand up 4 urself, ur old enough, I'm also in 6thform and understand the stress ur going through. 1st tell him the lazy 1 here is him not u, like seriously y can't he set up he's own room, about the driving tell him what u just said about the money an all. But a part time job will do u well if u decide 2 go ahead with it, it might as well take ur mind off things, I mean no 1 can force u, I'm not working cause my parents r more than happy 2 provide 4 me, I would like an experience tho, so mayb when I start uni I'll do it.Just b patient and do ur thing, something will come 2 light. And everything u said here, say it 2 ur dad, tell him how frustrated u feel, u have the right 2 speak up and say how u feel. U can always ask me 4 more advice if u want

Pleaseeeee, go and say it 2 him, try put some sense in his brain.

He says I’m useless, an idiot and an accident. All because he won’t move out of the house after my parents getting a divorce. He’s refusing to look for anywhere. He has all his work computers set up in MY ROOM!!! For the past 2 years I’ve been asking when I can have my room back and he never answers me. He eats in there and it’s honestly disgusting. I’m 17 and have never been able to use my desk because my dads always there. He says I’m useless because I haven’t learnt to drive (even though it’s impossible as my parents won’t give me any money and have spent 10k on a divorce) and also he is annoyed because I don’t have a job (even though I can’t find anything and would be too much with my A Levels) my dads controlling my life, shouting at me all day every day and making me feel worthless.

Speak to social services.

He's having a detrimental impact on you and your confidence (and thus your ability to get a job) and taking over your workspace. You need to get your own space somehow. Can you spend jobseeking time at your local library? Are you getting financial support?

Can't you live with mum instead?

yh hows ur relationship with ur mum, i hope shes happy 2 help

Really good, I just wish she was at home more

talk 2 her, tell her how u feel

I do talk to her. My dad hates that I like my mums new partner

ur dad just needs 2 get outttttt, sorry, tell ur parents that if they dont sort it out, ur running away (dont acc do it), if nothing happens stay at ur friends house 4 a few days without them knowing, then theyll realize that u were not joking, then come back, hopefully all sorted