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Idk what is going on

So I came to the conclusion I hate receiving compliments. I went online and nothing matches up with me. I don’t have low esteem problems and I love myself as I am, therefore I don’t understand why I hate compliments so much. It got so worse that I even hate it when my boyfriend says “i love you” on his daily basis good night text. Tf is wrong with me?
I’ve always felt like that too.

I think it’s the thought of people looking at you, and judging...even if it’s good.

It might be because being put on the spot that makes it feel uncomfortable.

I love yous and good nights are nice gestures. Could it be that you feel undeserving of being treated nicely?
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I don’t feel undeserving, it just makes me go “….ew” or “….no thanks”
Lately I’ve been reading books where the main character is not treated as good (until there’s that point of character development), might that be the reason?
Original post by karmabish
I don’t feel undeserving, it just makes me go “….ew” or “….no thanks”
Lately I’ve been reading books where the main character is not treated as good (until there’s that point of character development), might that be the reason?

Emotionally stunted?

Where are all the psychology students :argh:

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