Advice on loosing your virginity.Watch this thread
Hello! I don’t think you’re overthinking at all.. I think this comes down to what sex means to you vs what sex means to him. There’s no right or wrong way to feel about sex as long as you’re safe, respect yourself and are happy to have or to not have it! I would say if this person is not clear on what they expect/ want from this relationship then it might be a sign for you to be even more clear about what you want. Losing your virginity doesn’t have to be a massive deal.. but if you have any doubts about how you may feel after, how comfortable you would be with this person and if you would enjoy it then it might be a good opportunity to think considerably about how you feel about sex/ sexual partners. You have mentioned it is a big deal for you - I was exactly the same and waited until I was 23 which in this day and age is a bit odd haha.. but I have zero regrets waiting and am thankful I did but it aligned with my values about sex. Sorry such a rant I’ve went on!! Basically - there’s no right or wrong way, resort yourself and understand your own values/ideas about sex before jumping in with both feet! Best of luck to you xx
can I ask, when you lost it did you feel like nervous when you were loosing it. I feel like if I lost it to this person in the moment I would still be like is this the right decision? Was it a hard decision to make to loose when the time came or was it quite comfortable to come to that conclusion ?