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Do other guys actually like female genitals?

Personally, I don't. I think male genitals are way more appealing. Like, put aside how it feels and everything. Just aesthetically, I don't find anything alluring there. It just looks like a weird body part that I don't have. It's not attractive to me in the way that breasts, bums or faces are. I do find cis women attractive, but I don't specifically find their genitals attractive. I would prefer it if they had male genitals. Is this common or not? Like do other guys actually like female genitals? Why? Am I gay? I'd seriously appreciate answers to this. It's legitimately something I've been struggling with for a while now.

P.s. I'm using the word "female" to describe cis women here.

P.p.s. I know this is a bit risky, but I've tried to word it in as non-sexual a way as possible. This should be no more explicit than a sex ed class that a 10 year old would go to so please don't ban this post. I really wanna know.

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There’s a name for being attracted to adult human males
Yep, love them.
I'd recommend you google "blue waffle" if you want to learn more about the topic
Attractive in not what it looks like but in what it allows one to do ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
From what I've heard, girls don't find the looks of a penis particularly appealing.
It's more about what it enables you to do...


By the way, the subject matter itself is already more explicit than any 10 year old's sex education class...
Original post by Anonymous
Personally, I don't. I think male genitals are way more appealing. Like, put aside how it feels and everything. Just aesthetically, I don't find anything alluring there. It just looks like a weird body part that I don't have. It's not attractive to me in the way that breasts, bums or faces are. I do find cis women attractive, but I don't specifically find their genitals attractive. I would prefer it if they had male genitals. Is this common or not? Like do other guys actually like female genitals? Why? Am I gay? I'd seriously appreciate answers to this. It's legitimately something I've been struggling with for a while now.

P.s. I'm using the word "female" to describe cis women here.

P.p.s. I know this is a bit risky, but I've tried to word it in as non-sexual a way as possible. This should be no more explicit than a sex ed class that a 10 year old would go to so please don't ban this post. I really wanna know.


Idk if you're going to appreciate my advice because I'm a girl, but I a saw the question and was intruiged plus I'm attracted to girls so maybe it will be helpful. I personally, do find them attractive, as in, I find the thought of let's say...interacting with them appealing plus I find the idea that I'm being allowed access to a sensitive part of someone I find attractive hot. I wouldn't say I find it aesthetically appealing in exactly the same way I would a face, it's a different thing entirely. I'm obviously not an expert in this but I do feel like most guys feel like that too. Kind of paradoxically though, there is a part of my brain that ackowledges all genitals as slightly disgusting, which I think is human, so I don't think that aspect is concerning or means that you're gay.

But finding male genitals much more appealing...idk I feel like that might mean something and I don't think most guys feel like that. Let me ask you, I know you say you find female genitals unattractive but does that mean the idea of...doing anything with them grosses you out completely? Cause again that might mean something.
Original post by sufys
From what I've heard, girls don't find the looks of a penis particularly appealing.
It's more about what it enables you to do...


By the way, the subject matter itself is already more explicit than any 10 year old's sex education class...


I'm a straight female, and personally I do find male genitals appealing - I'm not gonna generalise for everyone, but surely you would be attracted to it in some shape or form. Personally not attracted to female anatomy.
Reply 8
Nah female parts are way prettier, our parts are ugly as heck ngl
Original post by Anonymous
I'm a straight female, and personally I do find male genitals appealing - I'm not gonna generalise for everyone, but surely you would be attracted to it in some shape or form. Personally not attracted to female anatomy.

Right. I have seen a few threads here, where females say they do not find male genitals appealing.
It depends. I don't think you have to look at the genitals very much during sex, so you don't really need to be attracted to them.
Original post by E.B5
Nah female parts are way prettier, our parts are ugly as heck ngl


I disagree. In my opinion both parts are ugly, but the female parts are more ugly. Heterosexual male...
Reply 11
Original post by sufys
I disagree. In my opinion both parts are ugly, but the female parts are more ugly. Heterosexual male...

Nah boobies top it 100%
Original post by E.B5
Nah boobies top it 100%


Oh it's breasts you're talking about?
Then I agree...
Original post by sufys
Right. I have seen a few threads here, where females say they do not find male genitals appealing.
It depends. I don't think you have to look at the genitals very much during sex, so you don't really need to be attracted to them.

Yeah that's what I mean, it's very dependent on the person - I don't think any answer is right/wrong. But it is interesting all the different perspectives!
Reply 14
Original post by sufys
Oh it's breasts you're talking about?
Then I agree...


But it also depends what your into tbh
Original post by McDonaldsEmploy
Attractive in not what it looks like but in what it allows one to do ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)


Ok, but like do you not feel attracted to the look of breasts? I do. And I also find that with male genitals, but not female genitals.
Original post by sufys
From what I've heard, girls don't find the looks of a penis particularly appealing.
It's more about what it enables you to do...


By the way, the subject matter itself is already more explicit than any 10 year old's sex education class...


That's weird.. but interesting.

Idk we watched a full video of two people having sex in our sex ed.
Original post by Anonymous
That's weird.. but interesting.

Idk we watched a full video of two people having sex in our sex ed.


Why are you watching porn in your sex education class? That's disturbing.
Original post by kktrian
Idk if you're going to appreciate my advice because I'm a girl, but I a saw the question and was intruiged plus I'm attracted to girls so maybe it will be helpful. I personally, do find them attractive, as in, I find the thought of let's say...interacting with them appealing plus I find the idea that I'm being allowed access to a sensitive part of someone I find attractive hot. I wouldn't say I find it aesthetically appealing in exactly the same way I would a face, it's a different thing entirely. I'm obviously not an expert in this but I do feel like most guys feel like that too. Kind of paradoxically though, there is a part of my brain that ackowledges all genitals as slightly disgusting, which I think is human, so I don't think that aspect is concerning or means that you're gay.

But finding male genitals much more appealing...idk I feel like that might mean something and I don't think most guys feel like that. Let me ask you, I know you say you find female genitals unattractive but does that mean the idea of...doing anything with them grosses you out completely? Cause again that might mean something.


Dw you're free to answer as well! All answers are very welcome and appreciated! Very interesting to read. I wouldn't say I feel grossed out at the thought of interacting with them, but I don't really feel any desire for it either. I would definitely be more tempted to do that kind of thing with male genitals.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm a straight female, and personally I do find male genitals appealing - I'm not gonna generalise for everyone, but surely you would be attracted to it in some shape or form. Personally not attracted to female anatomy.

That's interesting. I think we may agree on that. I have little doubt that any generalisation is going to be flawed.

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