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Is this creepy?

Are either of these 2 or both creepy?

1 - meeting the friends of a girl who rejected you and friend zoned you and going after them instead.

2 - meeting girls out and about (at events, bars etc) to ask them out.

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Original post by Anonymous
Are either of these 2 or both creepy?

1 - meeting the friends of a girl who rejected you and friend zoned you and going after them instead.

2 - meeting girls out and about (at events, bars etc) to ask them out.


Two sounds more creepy just goes to show how someone is desperate asf.
Original post by Mohammed_80
Two sounds more creepy just goes to show how someone is desperate asf.

So where is it acceptable to meet women to ask them out on a date?
Original post by Anonymous
So where is it acceptable to meet women to ask them out on a date?

Go somewhere posh and romantic like a cafe grab a coffee ☕️ or go to a posh restaurant for a dinner. Even a nice water park maybe in the sunshine.
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Original post by Mohammed_80
Go somewhere posh and romantic like a cafe grab a coffee ☕️ or go to a posh restaurant for a dinner. Even a nice water park maybe in the sunshine.


People would say it’s creepy to meet women in places like that with the intention of asking them out.
Original post by Anonymous
People would say it’s creepy to meet women in places like that with the intention of asking them out.


Unless they gave you consent and you both agree to it and then you make your move in what sense is that creepy?
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Original post by Mohammed_80
Unless they gave you consent and you both agree to it and then you make your move in what sense is that creepy?


So you now have to ask for Consent to ask someone out on a date?
Original post by Anonymous
Are either of these 2 or both creepy?

1 - meeting the friends of a girl who rejected you and friend zoned you and going after them instead.

2 - meeting girls out and about (at events, bars etc) to ask them out.


Isn’t 2- linked to nightclubs and partying activities that are recommended in order to meet up with someone in real???
Original post by Anonymous
So you now have to ask for Consent to ask someone out on a date?

I think you misinterpreted it if they said yes to meeting up is what I meant are you going to ask by force…
Original post by Mohammed_80
I think you misinterpreted it if they said yes to meeting up is what I meant are you going to ask by force…

What is asking by force? Asking is asking.
Original post by Anonymous
What is asking by force? Asking is asking.

When they refuse but you make yourself desperate.
Original post by Mohammed_80
When they refuse but you make yourself desperate.

That’s being persistent. I don’t think that’s right.
Original post by Anonymous
That’s being persistent. I don’t think that’s right.


No they are right, do you even take no as an answer?
Original post by aylinnnn13
No they are right, do you even take no as an answer?

Who is right? I said I don’t think it’s right to be persistent.
Original post by Anonymous
That’s being persistent. I don’t think that’s right.

Why would you make them come out of their comfort zone by force that goes to show your desperate, a lack of respect and courtesy and more of less harassing her.
Original post by aylinnnn13
No they are right, do you even take no as an answer?

Thank you
Original post by Anonymous
Who is right? I said I don’t think it’s right to be persistent.


You just disagreed with the person and said that's being persistent....
Original post by Mohammed_80
Why would you make them come out of their comfort zone by force that goes to show your desperate, a lack of respect and courtesy and more of less harassing her.

Thank you

I said I don’t think persistence isn’t right. Why is everyone assuming bad faith and misinterpreting me?
Original post by Anonymous
I said I don’t think persistence isn’t right. Why is everyone assuming bad faith and misinterpreting me?

I'm not, I just got confused by your wording, anyone would tbh...
Original post by aylinnnn13
You just disagreed with the person and said that's being persistent....

No I said ”That’s being persistent”. I.e. I described the situation they were describing. I then said “I don’t think that’s right”. I.e. It’s not right being persistent referring to the sentence which preceded the “I don’t think it’s right”.

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