females, Why are you single?

Reply 180

Anonymous #13

Original post by HucktheForde

Dont you like the warmth of a man? A man that will please and pleasure you the way you desire?

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he doesnt like me back?

Reply 181

COD_is_a_fish

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Original post by OU Student

Eh? Not willing just to settle for anyone. I then discovered (and suspected all along) that he had a girlfriend.

Same.

The good ones get snapped up quickly.

Reply 182

HucktheForde

OP

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Original post by COD_is_a_fish

Same.

The good ones get snapped up quickly.

This is actually not true

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Reply 183

georgia.17

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Original post by chlobofro

Because every man I've been with in the past 12 months has been either a cheater, a committment phobe, or emotionally unavailable. Or a combination of the above. That is why I am single.

This sounds exactly like what I've experienced in the past year hahaha

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Reply 184

COD_is_a_fish

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Original post by Foo.mp3

They may say that but then in 99 cases out of 100 if someone half way decent comes along, at the right time, they will give him a chance, even if they've yet to be convinced he's 'the one' (same goes for guys). Life's too short :h:

I'm talking about the ones who mean it, though.

Reply 185

COD_is_a_fish

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Original post by HucktheForde

This is actually not true

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What's your view?

MGTOW...

Original post by Foo.mp3

They may say that but then in 99 cases out of 100 if someone half way decent comes along, at the right time, they will give him a chance, even if they've yet to be convinced he's 'the one' (same goes for guys). Life's too short :h:

I agree with this. Most women (and some men) settle and give the relationship time to develop. I am not that attracted to people that ask me out but I doubt most people are but we tend to give it time to see if our feelings change.

Maybe that's just me...

Reply 188

Anonymous #11

Original post by Chonglok

My mum was very similar but limited it to age 18 (I turned 18 a week ago). Relationships sometimes doesn't always revolve around sex, my friends was in a 2.5 year relationship and it never got to that stage, I think it'll be the same for me (though I have never been in a relationship) due to me being an INFP on the myers briggs personality I seriously would want a girlfriend just so that I can love her and to make her happy, and wouldn't consider anything until after marriage

My parents say that once i move out, then i can do anything i want, but it all seems so far away.. I turned 15 a bit over a month ago..alot of my friends are going out already, and i have never been in a relationship..i mean it would be nice to have a person who i like to go out with every now and then... :/

Reply 189

abc101

17

I'm single because the guy I'm in love with and in some weird sort of messed up relationship with won't commit. So I'm not anyone's 'girlfriend' but nor am I 'single' enough to pursue romance with anyone else.

Reply 190

Chonglok

Original post by Anonymous

My parents say that once i move out, then i can do anything i want, but it all seems so far away.. I turned 15 a bit over a month ago..alot of my friends are going out already, and i have never been in a relationship..i mean it would be nice to have a person who i like to go out with every now and then... :/

Yeah, a really good relationship sounds really nice, and I assume you'll move out when you go to university (unless you go to a local university I'm sort of glad I missed the teen relationships that last for like 1 month, I would much prefer a serious relationship rather than something short. nevertheless, 3 years actually passes by quite quickly (it did for me, from 15 to 18, especially the last year, passed by ridiculously quickly).

Reply 191

username1214455

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Original post by Anonymous

Because I love someone who will never love me. He's too old for me, and going to marry another woman. I'm delighted for him, and hope she makes him the happiest man in the world. However, I think it will be a long time/ never before I can even consider someone who isn't him in that way, never mind feel for them with the potency I feel for him.

Wow. That's really sad :frown:

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Reply 192

deedee123

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Haven't met anyone that i really like that also really likes me back. Its usually one or other, i like them and they dont like me or they like me and i dont like them

Reply 193

Tiger Rag

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Original post by Foo.mp3

They may say that but then in 99 cases out of 100 if someone half way decent comes along, at the right time, they will give him a chance, even if they've yet to be convinced he's 'the one' (same goes for guys). Life's too short :h:

I'm not willing to settle for just anyone; but won't be waiting for the one to come along.

The last person I gave a chance, happened to be controlling and clingy. Frm the start, I could not see a future with him. (age gap, no similar interests, etc) It was alos clear how desparate he was.

Reply 194

chlobofro

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Original post by georgia.17

This sounds exactly like what I've experienced in the past year hahaha

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I hear that, sister. Learning to love myself is far more satisfying than trying to please men who are an absolute waste of time and energy. It was mentally and physically exhausting.

Reply 195

sheetlord

1. Cbf looking for someone.
2. Haven't met anyone I liked to the point that I wanted to date him.
3. People who like me and people I like are usually 2 different groups of people. Sometimes people I like like me back though, but then they turn out to be creepy/clingy/taken etc.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 196

Kevin70

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Men for marriage are something of the past and should be sought in vintage shops. Men nowadays are too wise to commit themselves as they all know the end of this beautiful romantic love is a sad strife and big disappointment.