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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I also find it hilarious how both of you have assumed I've had lots of sex and presumably sleep around just because I said I've had sex and am a girl. Just goes to show how your sexist and ignorant minds work I guess. There are things called stable relationships love, not that there's anything wrong with sleeping around. And you're both deluding yourselves into oblivion if you think there aren't Muslims out there who do sexual things before marriage lmao
    Lol what? You're the deluded one that thinks zina isn't a sin. Haha what ever you're crazy.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    By most, I am assuming you mean over 50%. For girls, I would say that over 50% do save themselves for marriage. In fact I'd say it is at least 70%. There are still a lot that don't though as 20-30% is a big number of a huge population group.

    For guys, I am not too sure if it is over 50%. I know a lot that do and a lot that don't, but it is certainly a lower % of guys saving themselves for marriage than girls no doubt.

    I am a Muslim guy and lost my virgnity on a one night stand, so I contribute to the guys that didn't save themselves.
    Why did you do it? Do you have any regrets?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol what? You're the deluded one that thinks zina isn't a sin. Haha what ever you're crazy.
    Lmao you're deluded, crazy and judgemental thinking our Lord Allah (swt) would give us sexual urges and then call it a sin to act on them. Don't hate me just because you're following an outdated form of Islam and I've adapted it to current times lool
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lmao you're deluded, crazy and judgemental thinking our Lord Allah (swt) would give us sexual urges and then call it a sin to act on them. Don't hate me just because you're following an outdated form of Islam and I've adapted it to current times lool
    I'll skip to the next question, how many gems do you have?
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    Isn't the concept of zina to prevent both the man and the women from having an illegitimate child that they can not support, and since they are not married they will deny the child of having a "family" in the traditional sense?. Which i suppose is why many cultures prefer to get their children married in adolescence.
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    My mum works in a hospital. Every Wednesday they hold the abortion clinic and 85% of the girls are young Asian Muslims.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I gathered from reading their last post. So bait.
    I agree. I do know a Muslim girl who has lost it but they've repented and regret their actions.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why did you do it? Do you have any regrets?
    I did it out of curiosity. And yes I do regret it.
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    Reasons why I say lack of control clearly demonstrated above. All you guys had to do was wait a couple of years lol. Most people get married by 24/25 some get married even earlier during uni. A lot of people regret this type of stuff. Unless you're a complete something beginning with w and ending in e and the middle that rhymes with core. You end up developing serious feelings for your first. Oh well.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Isn't the concept of zina to prevent both the man and the women from having an illegitimate child that they can not support, and since they are not married they will deny the child of having a "family" in the traditional sense?. Which i suppose is why many cultures prefer to get their children married in adolescence.
    You mean what's rampant in this country? Lol. Seriously though, our way is the best way. It ensures men and women have their biological needs met and children have stability and security. Men get respect, assurance and affection, women get love, financial security, stability and emotional relief. Both parties have their sexual needs met and both men and women aren't allowed to deny each other sex. Certain exemptions apply ofc i.e. ill health, periods..etc.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lmao you're deluded, crazy and judgemental thinking our Lord Allah (swt) would give us sexual urges and then call it a sin to act on them. Don't hate me just because you're following an outdated form of Islam and I've adapted it to current times lool
    You're so ignorant lol. It isn't a sin to have sex provided you're married. Believe what you will, since you think you're god and you make the rules haha. Have fun. slug.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You're so ignorant lol. It isn't a sin to have sex provided you're married. Believe what you will, since you think you're god and you make the rules haha. Have fun. slug.
    I know it isn't a sin to have sex when you're married your ignorant imbecile. It's not a sin to have sex before either you nasty slug
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I agree. I do know a Muslim girl who has lost it but they've repented and regret their actions.
    So? Doesn't mean they all do, I'm a Muslim girl who has had sex without being married and I don't regret it at all, it was definitely the right decision
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Not true at all but nice to see you'll just say that to make yourselves feel better when a Muslim doesn't agree with your way of thinking lmao
    lol you're not even a girl, let alone a Muslim one.
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    Yes I am a girl and a Muslim one at that. like I said before your just trying to say I'm not because you can't stand the thought that a Muslim doesn't sus scribe to your outdated version of Islam lmao
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So? Doesn't mean they all do, I'm a Muslim girl who has had sex without being married and I don't regret it at all, it was definitely the right decision
    I don't know if you're a troll or what. It's a major sin...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't know if you're a troll or what. It's a major sin...
    In your opinion, not mine.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In your opinion, not mine.
    interesting, how many times have you had sex?
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    If they're honest dedicated committed Muslims, they will
 
 
 
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