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    (Original post by faith...)
    Assalamu 'alaikum

    Im in a bit of a sticky situation

    My family have recently gotten a mortgage to buy our house

    Now they want me to get a job so i can chip in and help pay for the mortgage

    I know this mortgage is completely impermissible, and I wanted to have nothing to do with it, but now i'm inevitably being sucked in because i live under the same roof

    Not helping to pay the mortgage will cause a lot of problems and arguments

    What would you guys do/what should i do?

    Jazakumullah khair
    Wasalam

    I don't know how those things work, but you shouldn't obey your parents if they're encouraging something haram. However you should speak to them kindly and advise them in the best manner what they're doing is wrong, so they'll be more likely to listen to you.

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    (Original post by Al-farhan)
    There are islamic institutes and banks in the UK which help with islmic loans towards buying property.
    If the cost of the riba is hidden under some other name it is still riba. The only halal way to buy a house is to pay cash or use a loan that is really interest free. My parents dont even pretend to not pay interest on their house loan.
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    عيد مبارك Hope you've all had a very happy and blessed Eid today. Enjoy these amazing days with family and friends.
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Wasalam

    I don't know how those things work, but you shouldn't obey your parents if they're encouraging something haram. However you should speak to them kindly and advise them in the best manner what they're doing is wrong, so they'll be more likely to listen to you.

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    They know it's a big wrong, but they're not really fussed about it

    :/

    it's so silly, i swear. Putting your akhira at risk and getting involved in interest to buy a tiny, rundown council flat in london
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    (Original post by Al-farhan)
    The actions of others does not carry on to you.
    You can look at it or give it as rent you pay.
    Also if your family is not aware you can search and inform them of halal ways to buy property.
    but surely if i help in paying, that will be my action and i would be responsible?

    they're not interested. they've got the mortgage and they're not going back
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    https://www.facebook.com/doamuslims/...6284635419102/
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    (Original post by faith...)
    Assalamu 'alaikum

    Im in a bit of a sticky situation

    My family have recently gotten a mortgage to buy our house

    Now they want me to get a job so i can chip in and help pay for the mortgage

    I know this mortgage is completely impermissible, and I wanted to have nothing to do with it, but now i'm inevitably being sucked in because i live under the same roof

    Not helping to pay the mortgage will cause a lot of problems and arguments

    What would you guys do/what should i do?

    Jazakumullah khair
    Wa'alaykumasalaam bro. Not really sure about your situation.
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    (Original post by faith...)
    They know it's a big wrong, but they're not really fussed about it

    :/

    it's so silly, i swear. Putting your akhira at risk and getting involved in interest to buy a tiny, rundown council flat in london
    Just make excuses why you can't get a job, uni starting etc. They'll get over it.
    It's up to you what you wanna do, but personally I wouldn't contribute a single penny.

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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Just make excuses why you can't get a job, uni starting etc. They'll get over it.
    It's up to you what you wanna do, but personally I wouldn't contribute a single penny.

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    hmmmm, but i don't know if that would be considered as lying

    btw, how are things, sister hanwar?
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    I was listening to a seerah lecture and I came across this:

    Surat Al-Masad was revealed whilst Abu Lahab was still alive

    All Abu Lahab had to do was become Muslim, and he would have disproved the Qur'an....
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    i know the internet can be a dodgy place to learn about the deen, but this is very interesting, and i thought i'd share.

    http://www.questionsonislam.com/arti...disbelief-kufr
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    (Original post by faith...)
    hmmmm, but i don't know if that would be considered as lying

    btw, how are things, sister hanwar?
    It might be acceptable in this case? Idk.

    Not good but thanks for asking.

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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    It might be acceptable in this case? Idk.

    Not good but thanks for asking.

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    Are you okay, anything we can do to help?

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    (Original post by s_ahmed2)
    Are you okay, anything we can do to help?

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    I'll be ok, please make dua. JZK for asking

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    (Original post by faith...)
    Assalamu 'alaikum

    Im in a bit of a sticky situation

    My family have recently gotten a mortgage to buy our house

    Now they want me to get a job so i can chip in and help pay for the mortgage

    I know this mortgage is completely impermissible, and I wanted to have nothing to do with it, but now i'm inevitably being sucked in because i live under the same roof

    Not helping to pay the mortgage will cause a lot of problems and arguments

    What would you guys do/what should i do?

    Jazakumullah khair
    If you're going to continue to live in the house i suggest you pay up to avoid arguments if you can afford to as i think a mortgage in these circumstances is a neccessity.
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    Filthy, not surprised to be honest.
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    I'll be ok, please make dua. JZK for asking

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    Okay inshaAllah. May Allah alleviate whatever distress you are in.

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    (Original post by s_ahmed2)
    Okay inshaAllah. May Allah alleviate whatever distress you are in.

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    Ameen.

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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    I'll be ok, please make dua. JZK for asking

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    Aww bless you sis....I know you are going through a tough time ....but I am always here if you want to talk about it more remember <3 may Allah make it easier for you and your family . Ameen
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    (Original post by h333)
    Aww bless you sis....I know you are going through a tough time ....but I am always here if you want to talk about it more remember <3 may Allah make it easier for you and your family . Ameen
    Thanks a lot <3
    Ameen.

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