Thats not condradictory because sex anc arousal dont have to be linked. You dint have to like sex to be turned on by someone like hugging, even talking and many other things turn people on.(Original post by Mankytoes)
So you are saying your mind gets sexually aroused, but doesn't want sex, which seems contradictory.
Ignore me if ive missed something here as ive not read the whole thread.
Do they actually matter?