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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
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    I would try not to worry about it buddy. My **** experiences and my ex have damaged me and I wouldn't want to see someone in the same boat. I met up with a girl tonight for drinks. Sure we laughed and such but I could tell I was just boring. I don't have it in me anymore. There were lads less attractive than me walking around with absolute gorgeous women and I just came to realise I'd never have that in my life.

    I promise you dude, no matter what anyone else says, you are fine. Just put yourself out there and see how it goes.
    You're awesome, you know that right!!


    Well I'm sorry to hear about your past experiences! You deserve way better! You'll defo find someone amazing soon! Trust me!
    I'm sure you weren't boring her!! You're very entertaining to talk to!!
    Yes you do!! You've just not met the right girl yet!
    Yes you will! One day you'll have the most beautiful girl ever to have graced the earth!!!!

    Thanks, but I have more flaws than qualities!
    I shall do, but I'm not expecting much!
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    You will do! God bless ya heart,
    I'm going to bed nowww byee! Sweet dreamms xxx
    I hope so!

    Ok! Goodnight!!!
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    (Original post by jamesthehustler)
    I got my business it took years to save to do it loan free
    just don't get hooked on caffeine I still drink coffee and energy drinks (sometimes even mixed together) but no more pure caffeine supplements
    that a good start then just make sure the other data is correct
    the Mercedes I am enjoying being chauffeured around in it
    I'll get on with finding something show you a couple of rings i found with very different piece brackets the guy has hundreds of pieces so just look at him
    http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Designer-1...oAAOSwWTRWwjl5
    and
    http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Estate-4ct...sAAOSwbdpWW86g
    I have a custom piece produced for a few reasons sometimes it is a case of I find a stone and get it set how I like or it's a piece that you can't find anywhere
    like the bracelet it has 7ct of small round diamonds set all the way around it cost me £10,000 in the end to get it all done but I have been offered £25,000 for it but I love it too much the only reason I'd sell is if I could get one with even more diamonds maybe round on the outside edges and interconnected baguettes, emeralds or princesses in the middle
    Yeah I can imagine! They're not cheap to start!
    No I won't! It's good in moderation, but yeah it's good you've cut out the pure caffeine things!
    Indeed! Well there's nothing there right now but I shall fill it in when I chance to!
    Why not drive it?

    Ah thanks for those, the second one is more my price range. I'll take a look at him and see what he's got!
    Ah I see! Very nice indeed!!
    Rather expensive but it sounds very nice!
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    Yeah I can imagine! They're not cheap to start!
    No I won't! It's good in moderation, but yeah it's good you've cut out the pure caffeine things!
    Indeed! Well there's nothing there right now but I shall fill it in when I chance to!
    Why not drive it?

    Ah thanks for those, the second one is more my price range. I'll take a look at him and see what he's got!
    Ah I see! Very nice indeed!!
    Rather expensive but it sounds very nice!
    I put £5,000 in at the start
    exactly moderation
    take the time to do that then
    I don't have a drivers licence (honestly)
    that's why I put one of the most expensive gemstones along with a cheaper one
    the big bracelet will cost me about £25,000 but should be retail for about £80,000
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    (Original post by jamesthehustler)
    I put £5,000 in at the start
    exactly moderation
    take the time to do that then
    I don't have a drivers licence (honestly)
    that's why I put one of the most expensive gemstones along with a cheaper one
    the big bracelet will cost me about £25,000 but should be retail for about £80,000
    Ah well that's not too bad then, I don't think

    Indeed! It's key!

    Shall do! I'll make sure that everything is correct and of a high standard!

    Well I wasn't expecting that! Why don't you have one?

    Ah I see, that's a good idea!

    Wow that's a good deal there then!
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    Ah well that's not too bad then, I don't think

    Indeed! It's key!

    Shall do! I'll make sure that everything is correct and of a high standard!

    Well I wasn't expecting that! Why don't you have one?

    Ah I see, that's a good idea!

    Wow that's a good deal there then!
    well I have £100,000 in insured stock so I did good with my money
    indeed
    of course
    I just never bother to learn it the business too my priority
    that way you have a buy it now and a little bit to work towards
    if you have the right markets to buy the stones and get the work done and don't go it to a retail establishment it easy to get stuff like that
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    I've spoken to many here tbh, TSR has helped me to learn how to have proper conversations with people. And I love it here!
    That's awesome! :awesome:

    town centre is in a dodgy area tbh
    So find a middle-ground e.g. relatively safe/quiet shopping districts/centres and public spaces

    My new one though is awesome!
    Cool, well perhaps they'll help you make progress :yy:
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    That's awesome! :awesome:

    So find a middle-ground e.g. relatively safe/quiet shopping districts/centres and public spaces

    Cool, well perhaps they'll help you make progress :yy:
    Thanks!! Everyone has been so nice to me so thats defo helped!

    Hmm i can manage that, we have one place i can go to

    I sure hope so! Theyve helped me already so thats a positive!
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    It'd make sense if he did, but no it was someone else.

    True, very true.

    But I still don't drink. Never want to.
    Fair enough
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    There are some guys out there that manage to go on dates everyday! And then theres me whos never been on one!
    Its depressing thay all these guys are good looking too (no hate please or you will be reported)
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    I got called mentally unstable before by a tsr user for saying that girls prefer good looking guys! So yeah that was nice of them, seeing as theyve got a nice 11 gems too!
    But seriously how the hell is it possible for people to go on so many dates!
    Ive tried to get to know girls but they just arent interested, none of them!
    One even lead me on but thats another story!
    So how do you guys get to go on so many dates and have 4000 girlfriends by the time your 20?
    I mean i only want to have 1 in my life, someone i can be with forever!
    Thanks!
    because they're goodlooking. Looks matter the most on this
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    Well in my case by being tall and handsome.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Been on two "dates" in my life. One of the girls is now my girlfriend.
    Im assuming shes white?
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    (Original post by slade p)
    Im assuming shes white?
    She is.
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    Instead of trying to get to know them first literally just ask a woman you've briefly spoken to before (like a work colleague) if she would 'like to go get a drink sometime' and put your number down
    Girls are pretty nice with rejection like we lie and stuff so be ballsy and just do it.
    Ball is in her court anyway


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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    Exactly!
    Guys who aren't good looking get shut down instantly! It's so unfair!
    What are the perks?
    Yeah that's very true! Yet shyness in guys is seen as a massive weakness!
    So annoying!
    Although I don't want to base everything on looks, its often the case that the average looking guys always ask out the super good looking girls and ignore the other average looking girls who probably would've said yes.
    Lets be honest in every teen movie they always have a hopeless crush on the most popular, hottest girl in school.


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    (Original post by LillyB14)
    Lets be honest in every teen movie they always have a hopeless crush on the most popular, hottest girl in school.
    That's because it's a movie and not a reflection of real life. You are right in saying that some men (and women) aim for people of higher value/attractiveness to themselves, but that's not necessarily a bad thing because as we should all know, there isn't always a balance in a relationship/casual encounter. I think problem with OP is that he's had his confidence knocked time and time again that it becomes increasingly difficult to think positively or have the courage to keep trying. For many men it is a numbers game, as we don't have the luxury of doing nothing and having propositions made to us (unless you're good-looking, wealthy, high in social value etc). It is not easy.

    I've said it before and I'll say it again; OP is a great guy. I can tell just by the way he posts and how he has interacted with others and myself. It's disappointing to see him down on his luck but I believe without a shadow of a doubt he will find someone given time, and I don't make such statements lightly. All I can suggest is to continue trying but with a sense of ease to it; don't become desperate.
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    That's because it's a movie and not a reflection of real life. You are right in saying that some men (and women) aim for people of higher value/attractiveness to themselves, but that's not necessarily a bad thing because as we should all know, there isn't always a balance in a relationship/casual encounter. I think problem with OP is that he's had his confidence knocked time and time again that it becomes increasingly difficult to think positively or have the courage to keep trying. For many men it is a numbers game, as we don't have the luxury of doing nothing and having propositions made to us (unless you're good-looking, wealthy, high in social value etc). It is not easy.

    I've said it before and I'll say it again; OP is a great guy. I can tell just by the way he posts and how he has interacted with others and myself. It's disappointing to see him down on his luck but I believe without a shadow of a doubt he will find someone given time, and I don't make such statements lightly. All I can suggest is to continue trying but with a sense of ease to it; don't become desperate.
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    (Original post by FireFreezer77)
    I've been on Tinder and recieved not one match!
    Not one!
    Useless!
    Since I wrote that comment I now have a girlfriend who I met on Tinder lmao, of course it works. Have a decent picture and learn how to talk to girls!
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    lol this is not america we don't go on dates here
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    (Original post by Lemon Haze)
    Since I wrote that comment I now have a girlfriend who I met on Tinder lmao, of course it works. Have a decent picture and learn how to talk to girls!
    Considering the fact that 99% of girls on that bloody thing don't know how to have a conversation and their interests consist of exclusively "Netflix"...
 
 
 
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