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    (Original post by ScaryScience)
    Thanks so much for all the good wishes/hugs guys, I really really appreciate it. You're all so lovely. Thankfully things seem to be okay, in the grand scheme of things. My parents only have fairly minor injuries from seatbelts and things, so that's the most important thing. Dad has a head injury but nothing too serious I don't think. Our car is undriveable and the other one has been written off. Not great timing given they're going on a long holiday at the weekend and needed the car, but really they're just lucky to have their lives, things could have been very different. Anyway, I'll stop rambling. Still a bit anxious but mainly relieved. Thanks again, I hope you are all okay. :hugs:
    Really glad they're okay/is just minor things - must be a big relief definitely :hugs: Hope you can calm a bit soon Agree with TLG ^^ please don't blame yourself :nah:
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    Housemate worrying a bit about presentations too/they haven't done much either. Tried to reassure her a bit/found powerpoint about the whole essay stuff, and presentation is only worth 20% apparently, so I'm kinda relieved about that, though still obviously need to get sorted/actually read something. Though in my other modules I've gotten close to 0% in their 15% section for assignments/stuff, so I don't know. Anyway...
    Going to try to go to library later I think and hopefully get a book out to read. Might email the support lady again too
    Managed to get some smaller things that I needed to do this morning in bed, which is good. Just some emails/replying to people on fb.
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    Really pleased it's not sounding life-threatening or too serious :yes: What a scary day. No wonder you're still anxious Remember that you're not to blame in the slightest - there are loads of idiot drivers out there (talking about the overtaker here, not your parents) all over the place and it's their fault for overtaking in a reckless manner, NOT yours at all. So please don't let your brain blame yourself :hugs:
    Thanks for the kind words :hugs: still feel a bit shaken up and drained but will be better when I see them. hope you're okay :hugs:
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    Really glad they're okay/is just minor things - must be a big relief definitely :hugs: Hope you can calm a bit soon Agree with TLG ^^ please don't blame yourself :nah:
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    Housemate worrying a bit about presentations too/they haven't done much either. Tried to reassure her a bit/found powerpoint about the whole essay stuff, and presentation is only worth 20% apparently, so I'm kinda relieved about that, though still obviously need to get sorted/actually read something. Though in my other modules I've gotten close to 0% in their 15% section for assignments/stuff, so I don't know. Anyway...
    Going to try to go to library later I think and hopefully get a book out to read. Might email the support lady again too
    Managed to get some smaller things that I needed to do this morning in bed, which is good. Just some emails/replying to people on fb.
    Thanks for the kindness :hugs: well done on some productivity! :five:
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    Really need to have a rant at someone. Just really, really pissed off.
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    Really need to have a rant at someone. Just really, really pissed off.
    Can always rant to me if you want, I know you don't know me that well:erm: but I love helping people
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    (Original post by ScaryScience)
    Thanks so much for all the good wishes/hugs guys, I really really appreciate it. You're all so lovely. Thankfully things seem to be okay, in the grand scheme of things. My parents only have fairly minor injuries from seatbelts and things, so that's the most important thing. Dad has a head injury but nothing too serious I don't think. Our car is undriveable and the other one has been written off. Not great timing given they're going on a long holiday at the weekend and needed the car, but really they're just lucky to have their lives, things could have been very different. Anyway, I'll stop rambling. Still a bit anxious but mainly relieved. Thanks again, I hope you are all okay. :hugs:
    Glad they're relatively ok :hugs:


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    Really need to have a rant at someone. Just really, really pissed off.
    Rant at me if you want? Might not make a lot f sense back but still, will listen/read


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    So sorry to hear about your parents Scary


    It's been almost 48 hours since I emailed the Samaritans and still nothing...good to know my mental health crisis was important to them :lol: In fairness this is the only bad experience I've had with them though. I used to rely on them a bit a few years ago when the crisis team were being silly and they were usually pretty good.

    Been having the most spectacular mood swings all day, don't know how I'm going to feel one minute to the next.
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    Due on in the next few days so that's probably why but still blergh


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    Glad they're relatively ok :hugs:



    Rant at me if you want? Might not make a lot f sense back but still, will listen/read


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    Thanks lovely, hope you're doing okay :hugs:
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    So sorry to hear about your parents Scary


    It's been almost 48 hours since I emailed the Samaritans and still nothing...good to know my mental health crisis was important to them :lol: In fairness this is the only bad experience I've had with them though. I used to rely on them a bit a few years ago when the crisis team were being silly and they were usually pretty good.

    Been having the most spectacular mood swings all day, don't know how I'm going to feel one minute to the next.
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    Due on in the next few days so that's probably why but still blergh


    Hope everyone is ok :hugs:
    Thanks lovely. And very sorry to hear about the Samaritans, that's not on at all :hugs:
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    I got the job!!!!!! :party: :banana:


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    I got the job!!!!!! :party: :banana:


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    congratulations hun. very proud of you :lovehug:
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    I got the job!!!!!! :party: :banana:


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    Lots of :hugs:

    Done nothing today besides dentist and sitting in cinema office/watching TV. :/ Mouth hurts because of ulcer, too Essay presentation in a week now. Dept. support person hasn't emailed back about essay-help, either. Not sure what to do Well. Sort of do. But just seems scary/just want to hide. (need to just get a book out and read and hope it makes sense, but just hoping it does seems so silly and risky and eurgh ) Keep thinking that I do *need* to do some sort of presentation, and just tempted to do mine first, then just walk out/not listen to the others in my tutor group, will probably want to run away anyway. :/ bleeeh.
    Also thinking that maybe I should give up this society role even more, just feeling so bad atm, plus term 3 will probably be worse. Don't want to mess up degree stuff, either but just confusing and don't know what to do/seems like such a cop-out/quitting after only 3-4 weeks in the role. and what if I improve? Even if i can't really see that happening :sad:
    Hope everyone's alright. So tired
    Thanks.

    What is it about the presentation that's worrying you?

    Do you have any close friends in the society? You could try asking for feedback from them about how you're doing, sometimes it can be difficult to take an objective view about these sorts of things. Although if it's the fact it might get in the way of your degree I don't think that's bad to consider, after all it's what you're at uni for.
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    I got the job!!!!!! :party: :banana:


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    Nice one Panda. :five:
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    Thanks guys!!!

    Im quite shocked as there was 4 other people they interviewed for it!

    Its only a 6 hour a week job, but its a job in youth work and there will probably chance for overtime! Really chuffed


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    I got the job!!!!!! :party: :banana:


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    Well done Panda! :yay: :woo: :lovehug:
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    (Original post by Sabertooth)
    I told my wife and she said everything is down to stress. I'm unemployed, out of education and the biggest stress in my life is ice hockey practice - which I'm probably going to quit.

    Called my psychiatrist and have an appointment for next week.

    Thanks for the hugs, I'm just so scared of going back to where I was before.
    Sorry things are so rough at the moment. :hugs: Good that you've let them know though- hopefully they'll help!
    I know that feeling. But hopefully you identifying that thing are getting tough and being able to ask for support will help keep things from getting as bad as they've been before? :yes: Big hugs! :penguinhug:
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    So glad your parents are okay! :sadnod: And what panda said- nothing to feel guilty for! :hugs: Hope you're okay hun- around if you need. :lovehug:
 
 
 
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