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Phantom Phoenix
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^^well, do you know the way he talk about you with his mates? how do you know he doesn't kind of resent and repect you less for doing it? I have a lot of male friends and their gfs would be surprised and shocked about things that they have said about them
Then you don't have very nice male friends, clearly. I'm sorry you think that's representative of all men, because it really isn't.
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(Original post by butterfly_girl_5)
The only reason I said that was an answer to someones post.

Youre saying morality is relative. I disagree.
Using this logic, if a man doesnt think its degrading to rape a woman then because he doesnt think it is, then its not (and dont you go telling me Im comparing the morality of sexual fetishes to rape- Im exclusively talking about an example of something that is certainly very degrading and something men wouldnt do unless they didnt think it was)
Who cares what the man thinks?

The woman would, I'm sure, near enough always feel degraded if raped, though there's bound to be some "out there" exceptions.

"Feeling degraded" is very much down to the recipient of the hypothetical act...
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Anything can be part of a sensitive considerate relationship
really?
I know im going to an extreme here, but rape and phyisal abuse cant.
So regardless of whether you belief the cuming on faces is, not anything
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(Original post by butterfly_girl_5)
The only reason I said that was an answer to someones post.

Youre saying morality is relative. I disagree.
Using this logic, if a man doesnt think its degrading to rape a woman then because he doesnt think it is, then its not (and dont you go telling me Im comparing the morality of sexual fetishes to rape- Im exclusively talking about an example of something that is certainly very degrading and something men wouldnt do unless they didnt think it was)
Nope. By this logic, it is degrading, because the woman hasn't consented to it.
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I've asked you this before and you ignored me; do you think ejaculating in someone's face is morally wrong?
make sure you answer this butterfly girl

if it IS morally wrong to ejaculate on someones face, is it morally wrong to ejactulate on someones belly, arm, hand....
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This is EXACTLY what I'm worried about. What if he thought I was disgusting, what if when we split up and he tells people? What if he brings it up in an arguement? What if he started looking down on me?

It's so worrying
If this is a worry, then you do not love him and you should not be doing anything with him yet!

And if you think he is likely to do that then why are you with him?

I'm sorry OP, but you do not seem mature enough do be doing stuff like this.

How old are you?
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(Original post by butterfly_girl_5)
really?
I know im going to an extreme here, but rape and phyisal abuse cant.
So regardless of whether you belief the cuming on faces is, not anything
Anything consensual, then.
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no, because i think you like men

wasnt that confusing was it?
well im certainly not gay.

You just do not know when to shut up. You posts are so ignornant and I don't know why other intelligent people are actaully bothering to write proper reponses to you. I certainly wont be...

for example:

The only chance of you ever working in a medical setting, my friend, is as a cadaver.
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suek, are you saying that giving a girl a facial shot without permission is a form of sexual abuse/ rape or w/e???
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[B]I don't think you are going to find a logical answer here
I dont think this has anything to do with logic.
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suek, are you saying that giving a girl a facial shot without permission is a form of sexual abuse/ rape or w/e???
Erm... no, not at all. The point was that "anything" could be a part of a sensitive, caring relationship, which butterfly then countered with saying that rape and abuse couldn't possibly be.

I'm only saying that anything consensual can quite easily be part of a sensitive, caring relationship. Butterfly seems to think that certain sexual acts (like a facial...) cannot possibly exist in a loving relationship.
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(Original post by butterfly_girl_5)
I dont think this has anything to do with logic.
Passion rarely does. That's the whole point.
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ah I see, sorry I misunderstood the post, hence my query.

I agree with you entirely too. sex is a very personal thing, and what certain people enjoy others do not, it can range from straight up,lights off missionary to bondage, degradation, cutting and loads of different things. the feeling behind it don't differ though.
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Lol. As if its that bad -not that I've ever had it done to me, mind-.

Get over yourself and just let him do it!!
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ah I see, sorry I misunderstood the post, hence my query.

I agree with you entirely too. sex is a very personal thing, and what certain people enjoy others do not, it can range from straight up,lights off missionary to bondage, degradation, cutting and loads of different things. the feeling behind it don't differ though.
Yeah I realise I quoted poorly
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(Original post by lodzinski)
ah I see, sorry I misunderstood the post, hence my query.

I agree with you entirely too. sex is a very personal thing, and what certain people enjoy others do not, it can range from straight up,lights off missionary to bondage, degradation, cutting and loads of different things. the feeling behind it don't differ though.
Damn right.
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cumming on the face is just an act. its like kissing, different views. i bet he cums on you boobs, i wouldnt *** on my gf's face because id rather kiss. but thats just me.
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(Original post by butterfly_girl_5)
really?
I know im going to an extreme here, but rape and phyisal abuse cant.
So regardless of whether you belief the cuming on faces is, not anything
Well, I was saying that any consensual sexual act between adults is equally morally viable. There is by definition no such thing as consensual rape or, I believe, consensual abuse (if a person consents to it, then it is no longer abuse, and if they don't consent then it isn't consensual). Not to mention the fact that rape and physical abuse can hardly be described as considerate and sensitive.

So yes, any sexual act which is consented to by adults is fine in a considerate, sensitive relationship.
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is that why millions of people watch it, its not only pervs that watch it, some people watch it to get tips!!
For exactly the same reason as people watch bad and clumsy hollywood films or soaps or crap sitcoms. I was criticising it in that respect

I never said anything about pervs being the only people who watch porn, I dont know where your getting that form
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Lol. As if its that bad -not that I've ever had it done to me, mind-.

Get over yourself and just let him do it!!
Now this I don't agree with. If one member of a relationship is uncomfortable doing a particular thing then there should be no requirement that they engage in it.
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