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    (Original post by Starrydog)
    ...If it was me I'd be terrified of the sex part
    I'm surprised, I thought everyone wants intimate sexual activity on their wedding night.

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    (Original post by Secretnerd123)
    Don't generalise please.
    Ok, not everyone, but I certainly want all of this.

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    (Original post by cobalion955)
    Ok, not everyone, but I certainly want all of this.

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    Can you not keep it to yourself?
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    (Original post by Secretnerd123)
    Can you not keep it to yourself?
    Ok, maybe I should.

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    A MUSLIM can be married arranged [help of parents] or through love

    .. IT IS NOT Compulsory to have arranged marriage
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    (Original post by Ggmu!)
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    Its page 13 if you want to read. Well, some parts are on page 13 anyway lol.
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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    Its page 13 if you want to read. Well, some parts are on page 13 anyway lol.
    That was, hilarious to read. And yes, your suspicions are correct.

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    (Original post by cobalion955)
    Which method isn't Islamic? Asking for the parents contact details or getting to know the person yourself. (Islamically, guys and girls aren't meant to be hanging out alone together)
    Going up to her directly and asking for the contact details of her parents when you barely know her with the intention of marriage is creepy, it wouldn't hurt to get to know her, that's not haraam, you don't have to be hanging out alone together, it could be in public with friends etc..

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This is what I plan on doing (when and if the time comes):

    Be friends with the girl for 1-2 months and see if we click, it will be pretty obvious if I like her and if she likes me within that period.
    Tell her that I like her and would like to continue getting to know her with the intention of marriage.
    Spend around a year or two with her and then get parents involved.

    Throughout this whole process there will be no touchy-touchy business. I know its not Islamic but... that's what I see myself doing.
    I think that's a perfectly fine method, you get to know her well and it won't be creepy with a direct marriage proposal before you even get to know her.. I wouldn't mind something like that (I'm Muslim)
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    No, I don't want to talk to some religious nutcake.
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    Not in a million years.

    I thought they wore it to repel us kuffar anyway.
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    (Original post by Scumbaggio)
    Not in a million years.

    I thought they wore it to repel us kuffar anyway.
    wrong.

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    no. the fact that they're wearing a hijab shows that there would probably be some clashes in terms of religion and lifestyle, and more importantly, I personally think it looks ugly and acts as a symbol of oppression and inequality.
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    (Original post by TheTechN1304)
    no. the fact that they're wearing a hijab shows that there would probably be some clashes in terms of religion and lifestyle, and more importantly, I personally think it looks ugly and acts as a symbol of oppression and inequality.
    There are so many different designs and material. There are also so many different ways of wearing it. How can it 'just' look ugly? :/


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    (Original post by fishi)
    They are not racists...
    Whats racist about that.. My mom was a reverty and well i have always preferred wearing the hijab myself, so i have never been pushed into anything. And if we are talking about dating, well ofcourse its not ok with parents.. I have many white guy friends athiests and christains, my dad knowd about them too and hasnt asked me not to talk to them.. They just dont want us to waste our time with some white guy we might not marry or any guh for that matter..
    If my parents said 'you can't marry a brown person' they'd be racist. Its no different.


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    QUESTION TO MUSLIM GIRLS:

    do you talk about marriage/boys with your friends frequently?

    i.e

    A: Omg mashallah he's so well mannered, smart and hes handsome
    B: yeah he is!
    C: inshaAllah I'd like to marry someone like him
    A: eww u slutty *****
    ABC: *laugh hysterically*
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    QUESTION TO MUSLIM GIRLS:

    do you talk about marriage/boys with your friends frequently?

    i.e

    A: Omg mashallah he's so well mannered, smart and hes handsome
    B: yeah he is!
    C: inshaAllah I'd like to marry someone like him
    A: eww u slutty *****
    ABC: *laugh hysterically*
    Not quite a conversation like that
    This thread is getting weirder and weirder :lol:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    QUESTION TO MUSLIM GIRLS:

    do you talk about marriage/boys with your friends frequently?

    i.e

    A: Omg mashallah he's so well mannered, smart and hes handsome
    B: yeah he is!
    C: inshaAllah I'd like to marry someone like him
    A: eww u slutty *****
    ABC: *laugh hysterically*
    Yep and the convo is usually pretty similar to that except me and my friends dont call eachother slutty *****es lol :/
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    (Original post by Secretnerd123)
    Yep and the convo is usually pretty similar to that except me and my friends dont call eachother slutty *****es lol :/
    Lmao exactly :lol:
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    QUESTION TO MUSLIM GIRLS:

    do you talk about marriage/boys with your friends frequently?

    i.e

    A: Omg mashallah he's so well mannered, smart and hes handsome
    B: yeah he is!
    C: inshaAllah I'd like to marry someone like him
    A: eww u slutty *****
    ABC: *laugh hysterically*
    (Original post by Secretnerd123)
    Yep and the convo is usually pretty similar to that except me and my friends dont call eachother slutty *****es lol :/

    (Original post by Biryani007)
    Lmao exactly :lol:
    haha yeah I imagined, I added that in just for the lols are Muslims girls shallow? i.e how much do you care about looks/money, and if you don't mind, what do you look for in potential husbies.
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    (Original post by Ggmu!)
    That was, hilarious to read. And yes, your suspicions are correct.

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    What suspicions?

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