24, and never had oral sex

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    (Original post by AngryRedhead)
    Look, just next time you have sex, just ask her for it as you would ask for a massage or something. She can only say no
    I just can't ever see myself doing that.
    Even if she asks me " hey, do you want me to go down on you?".
    I can only ever see myself saying :"only if you want to" or " I don't mind", and not " yes, I want you to go down on me".
    It's because I'm very shy with girls.
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    (Original post by Iamverycool)
    I just can't ever see myself doing that.
    Even if she asks me " hey, do you want me to go down on you?".
    I can only ever see myself saying :"only if you want to" or " I don't mind", and not " yes, I want you to go down on me".
    It's because I'm very shy with girls.
    Maybe you just need a bit more confidence with women? The only way you'll get what you want is asking for it
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    (Original post by AngryRedhead)
    Maybe you just need a bit more confidence with women? The only way you'll get what you want is asking for it
    You are right, that's what I need.
    Thanks for the advice anyway.
    I hope someday maybe it will happen.
    But if not, not a problem.
    There are other greater things in life than getting your penis...by a girl.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    Why lol. It's just sex.
    It's other virgin's dream to at least have sex.
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    (Original post by Iamverycool)
    I can definitely afford a hooker, but the thing is, like I said I am a high quality person, with morals and values.

    That's why I will never go to a hooker which is a despicable thing in my opinion.
    I am not joking here or being cynical.

    I hold myself to high standards.
    go to Knightsbridge it not cheap but it's classy if you want it done it would cost me close to a week's wages but I'd consider it if I had to (i don't have to though as I have an FWB)
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    (Original post by jamesthehustler)
    go to Knightsbridge it not cheap but it's classy if you want it done it would cost me close to a week's wages but I'd consider it if I had to (i don't have to though as I have an FWB)
    Like I said I will never go to a hooker.

    I prefer to stay a 100 year old oral sex virgin than to go ti a hooker which is an immoral and un noble act.
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    (Original post by Iamverycool)
    I just can't ever see myself doing that.
    Even if she asks me " hey, do you want me to go down on you?".
    I can only ever see myself saying :"only if you want to" or " I don't mind", and not " yes, I want you to go down on me".
    It's because I'm very shy with girls.
    Nah man, you need to command her to go down on you. Put a hand on her head when she's in front of you and whisper a command in her ear and push her down to your crotch. Make sure there's something behind her, though.
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    (Original post by Howard_Wolowitz)
    It's other virgin's dream to at least have sex.
    Virgins put pussy on such a high pedestal, until they have sex a few times.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    Nah man, you need to command her to go down on you. Put a hand on her head when she's in front of you and whisper a command in her ear and push her down to your crotch. Make sure there's something behind her, though.
    Man, I don't behave like that.
    I am a gentleman.
    I will never force a women to do anything against her will.
    You've bern watching too much porn.
    That's how animals behave.
    I hold myself to higher standards.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    Nah man, you need to command her to go down on you. Put a hand on her head when she's in front of you and whisper a command in her ear and push her down to your crotch. Make sure there's something behind her, though.
    My impression is that if you do foreplay right and she's really turned on, she'll do it voluntarily, you don't need to push anything. Commands are alright I guess but why push her?
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    (Original post by Iamverycool)
    Man, I don't behave like that.
    I am a gentleman.
    I will never force a women to do anything against her will.
    You've bern watching too much porn.
    That's how animals behave.
    I hold myself to higher standards.
    I always :rofl: when people say that, I don't know why. It sounds so douchey and cringy.
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    (Original post by Iamverycool)
    Man, I don't behave like that.
    I am a gentleman.
    I will never force a women to do anything against her will.
    You've bern watching too much porn.
    That's how animals behave.
    I hold myself to higher standards.
    Keep telling yourself that.
    Women honestly love this kind of stuff, and you'll know if it's against her will because she won't do it and her body language will tell you she's not receptive.
    I also don't watch porn lol.
    We are animals. Sex is pure animalistic pleasure.
    You're missing out on a lot of pleasure by doing that. EDIT: as is she.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    My impression is that if you do foreplay right and she's really turned on, she'll do it voluntarily, you don't need to push anything. Commands are alright I guess but why push her?
    I'm not saying to break her head off with your hand. Just a gentle push down, more as a power symbol than actually trying to get her from A to B.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    I'm not saying to break her head off with your hand. Just a gentle push down, more as a power symbol than actually trying to get her from A to B.
    I know what you mean, it's still weird. Like, your dick is out, it's likely in front of her, she's likely touching it already. I can't imagine a situation where she'd be like "oh no, I ain't putting that thing in my mouth until he pushes my head on it". It's just unnecessary imo unless the girl is super inexperienced.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    I know what you mean, it's still weird. Like, your dick is out, it's likely in front of her, she's likely touching it already. I can't imagine a situation where she'd be like "oh no, I ain't putting that thing in my mouth until he pushes my head on it". It's just unnecessary imo unless the girl is super inexperienced.
    I'd agree with you if it were a forceful push, but the hand on her head could be on her shoulder, neck, anywhere really. It's just to show you have control of the situation. A blowjob is literally just for your pleasure, so don't beat around the bush and pretend it's for her.
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    (Original post by AlexFam)
    Virgins put pussy on such a high pedestal, until they have sex a few times.
    Yeah, they always do.
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    (Original post by TrotskyiteRebel)
    you do? How come theyve not had sex and theyre 30? Im just really curious. I know that unfortunately people with disabilities have this problem but apart from that ive not heard 30 and a virgin
    you've never heard of it because its not really something that people brag about especially men. i guess they were able to confide in me because i'm a woman therefore less likely to laugh at him or think him weird than a man would.
    i was equally as shocked too, they didn't seem to have anything wrong with them. they were ok to look at, decent body and intelligent but having a lack of confidence/body issues strikes a lot of men too and thats the reason why (they told me) that they were still virgins. its not that they couldn't find someone, its that they were too unconfident/not ready to go the full way. its nice to know that men go through the same things as us really
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    (Original post by Allie4)
    you've never heard of it because its not really something that people brag about especially men. i guess they were able to confide in me because i'm a woman therefore less likely to laugh at him or think him weird than a man would.
    i was equally as shocked too, they didn't seem to have anything wrong with them. they were ok to look at, decent body and intelligent but having a lack of confidence/body issues strikes a lot of men too and thats the reason why (they told me) that they were still virgins. its not that they couldn't find someone, its that they were too unconfident/not ready to go the full way. its nice to know that men go through the same things as us really
    It's very interesting. I guess you should have a very trustworthy character that they opened up to you about that. That's great people don't really trust each other these days as much as they used to
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    (Original post by TrotskyiteRebel)
    It's very interesting. I guess you should have a very trustworthy character that they opened up to you about that. That's great people don't really trust each other these days as much as they used to
    thats because i come across as being mature. and i am, i'm not the type to laugh at stuff like this, people can confide in me about anything, i rarely judge (i don't think) and quite frankly i admire people more who have the guts to admit to stuff like this. my answer was 'so what?' because its true, its just virginity, no idea why everyone makes such a big deal out of it. theres no time limit or law against it, lose it when you are ready. if you never want to lose it, don't. just stop thinking that you HAVE to do it just because everyone else has done it.
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    (Original post by Ordo)
    oh boohoo just hire a hooker or find a gf instead of posting here
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