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    Note: If someone gets banned please don't gloat about it. You wouldn't the same to be done to you (i.e. you made fun of).

    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Yes and they know who they are.
    Tbf, If you're referring to me, I was just loling at quantum's revenge strategy. I wouldn't mind if they made fun of me anyway, one report is all it takes to remove it.
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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    Tbf, If you're referring to me, I was just loling at quantum's revenge strategy. I wouldn't mind if they made fun of me anyway, one report is all it takes to remove it.
    Like I said, they know who they are lol.
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    I guess a bit. Mines more like "need to finish course, get job, get a place etc...".
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Walaikum assalam,

    Funny rant. :lol: I'm at that stage but now I don't worry as much... cuz the first step is 'find someone to marry' THEN I could worry about children and job, etc. I mean first I have to see what the situation truly is and only then could I assess and make an informed decision.

    As for working... maybe find a part time job so the children are not neglected so much. Oh and in Pakistan, family/relatives help out in babysitting so there's that hehe.
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Wa 'alaikum assalaam

    I think this would be much more prevalent in females. I think there is more pressure for them to marry earlier than males because of their biology. Also a lot of men want to marry a woman who is a few years younger than them.

    We are mostly chilled about marriage i would think. Most of us think we can take care of ourselves and provide etc

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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Wasalam. Yeah I can relate. I try and stop thinking about it too much though, and just trust what Allah has written down for me.

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    Good luck!
    Thank you Dima

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    May Allah help you.
    Jzk-k

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    Inshallah you will nail your exam

    Good luck Sis
    Jzk-k xoxo
    thanks

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    Insha Allah it goes well!

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    Salam ISoc family, hope you are well. This recitation has helped me so so so much, subhanAllah. Please remember me in your du'as.


    Walaykumasalaam, good alhamdulillah
    Thanks for sharing sis
    I will do
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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Like I said, they know who they are lol.
    I will take that as not me
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    (Original post by Mary562)
    Walaykumasalaam, good alhamdulillah
    Thanks for sharing sis
    I will do
    Thank you sister, in sha Allah the exam goes well tomorrow. xx
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    (Original post by Khodu)
    Thank you sister, in sha Allah the exam goes well tomorrow. xx
    Jzk-k xo
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Walaykumasalaam

    Well not at this stage no, but I do have odd conversations with friends regarding this lol
    I'm more worried about finishing my studies first and then thinking about the rest later. My parents have never mentioned it
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Was salaam

    I think someone's been spending too much time in muslim twitter.
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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Walaikum assalam,

    Funny rant. :lol: I'm at that stage but now I don't worry as much... cuz the first step is 'find someone to marry' THEN I could worry about children and job, etc. I mean first I have to see what the situation truly is and only then could I assess and make an informed decision.

    As for working... maybe find a part time job so the children are not neglected so much. Oh and in Pakistan, family/relatives help out in babysitting so there's that hehe.
    You seem so relaxed. A lot of women who are in their late 20s will have their family fighting and arguing about her not being married, how she'll never find someone etc.

    Dont get too lazy though. You cant just sit back and expect someone to magically come by and say it's all qadr whether you marry or not. You have to be active... Learned this stuff from mufti menk himself

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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Perhaps the tafseer of 'Alhamdulillahi Rabb al-Aalameen' (Praise is for Allah, the Rabb of the Aalameen) would clear things up.



    Source: http://ia601200.us.archive.org/8/ite...ticmiracle.pdf
    JazakAllah!! This is why I love ISOC .
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    (Original post by accretion disk)
    You seem so relaxed. A lot of women who are in their late 20s will have their family fighting and arguing about her not being married, how she'll never find someone etc.

    Dont get too lazy though. You cant just sit back and expect someone to magically come by and say it's all qadr whether you marry or not. You have to be active... Learned this stuff from mufti menk himself

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    Thank you for your words of wisdom.
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    (Original post by ImNotMe)
    JazakAllah!! This is why I love ISOC .
    Glad to help. :hat2:
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    (Original post by Tpos)
    Salaam

    http://www.therevival.co.uk/blogs/tpos/grown-decisions

    Are these kinds of thoughts that bother guys too? (I'm assuming girls DO think about this kind of stuff...do you?)
    Waalaikumassalam

    Now that I'm in my early 20s, I'm starting to think a lot about marriage. I'll probably be married in the next 5-6 years and as those 5-6 years will pass by in a blink of an eye, I've a lot of improvements to make in that short period of time before I can be a good husband to my wife. I don't know if I will ever be mentally ready for marriage and all the responsibilities that come with it but one has got to follow the Sunnah innit.
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    (Original post by Ankabout)
    Yes and they know who they are.
    Sorry
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    Cut out pride, arrogance and self-admiration. These are not hallmarks of Paradise. Always remember where we came from & where we are headed.
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    (Original post by K1NG93)
    Sorry
    It's ok. You didn't offend me lol.
 
 
 
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