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    (Original post by The*Doctor's*Rose)
    because some people do not bother to strive for a good career or job; they live off their social status and 'looks'. Your list is not always the case. And whoever said it was wrong to not strive to look good? It can be seen as narcissistic, you just have to take care of yourself; presentable clothes, nice hair; does being fat automatically mean that you don't strive to look good? No, if you are tubby you can still look pretty fine.
    Everybody wants different things; to you, being fat and 'unfit' is off-putting, but to someone else, she is a goddess.

    Why are we even judging people?? i hate it. I hate categorising people and saying that they will 'never get a hot boyfriend' or 'they will die'. :mad:

    I've been losing a lot of weight (just over 4 stone now!) and still more to lose, but i'm working towards it. In the meantime, my life doesn't come to a standstill because of this factor. I never want to be skinny, only healthy. And i'm doing it to be healthy, not for some arrogant person to rate 'my hotness' or for me to get a boyfriend.

    I've been subjected to and witnessed so many acts of bullying and neglect because people are so naive about the whole size issue. Start judging by the individual, not the mass. You have no idea what each person has gone/going through.

    Well done on your weight loss! What an achievement

    I wouldn't get too het up about Jimbo1234 he's a well-known troll on here.
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    (Original post by Amuroray)
    How hard isit Just to go to the gym?

    Fat people make me laugh.
    You're rude on every single thread I see.

    Grow up.
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    Well I think that she's pretty hot.

    Body type is not some sort of obstacle to me, there is beauty in far more ways than one and she'd turn me on just great. I know a girl who thinks she's way overweight and too tall but when she dresses for the occasion she's a stunner. I think the OP's attitude towards this is actually ridiculous. If you want to bash a stick, that's up to you. You don't represent everyone's views and neither do I, I like her modelling and I'll look out for her.

    A lot of men like a bit of meat on girls, her face, legs and breasts are quite attractive in my opinion. I agree with her message, curves are awe-inspiring.
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    (Original post by .Ali.)
    You're rude on every single thread I see.

    Grow up.
    Its the truth.Going to the gym or doing some sort of exercise doesnt hurt.

    You're deluded and soft on every single thread i see.

    Grow up.
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    everyone has their own inetrpretation of what is fat ? i personally think she is on the boderline of being fat !

    that bad pose for her , it doesnt do her any favour

    but yoou got admire her , it takes lots of guts to that
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    (Original post by Amuroray)
    Its the truth.Going to the gym or doing some sort of exercise doesnt hurt.

    You're deluded and soft on every single thread i see.

    Grow up.
    It's their choice though. Why should they if they don't want to?

    I'm hardly deluded and soft. Just because I believe people can live their life how they want to?
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    (Original post by amizzle91)
    Well done on your weight loss! What an achievement

    I wouldn't get too het up about Jimbo1234 he's a well-known troll on here.
    Thank-you
    To be honest i'm not that bothered with people like him :rolleyes:

    if anyone wants something inspiring to read, check this out:
    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...ess-sizes.html
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    when i first opened the window, i looked at just her face and she looked quite skinny normal tbf, but then i scrolled down.....

    anyway yeah id say that shes chubby/borderline fart, but i still would
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    You don't help people with poor self-esteem. The whole point was to make being curvy acceptable, and you just tarnished that.
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    (Original post by Jimbo1234)
    What I said is perfectly true. To make it more simple : Why would someone choose to be fat?

    Ok, lets forget about medical reasons as there are some people out there who can not lose weight/exercise, but for the vast majority, being fat is a choice.
    For your bf to be fat yet do all that means he must have a ****ing terrible diet, which again, is his choice and will be extremely bad for him. Did he ever think that changing his diet would result in him being better at those sports? However he does not because he is either too lazy or has not self control and wants to each garbage ergo proving me right.
    He's a chef in a very upmarket hotel so he eats a lot and eats delicious, often indulgent food. He would rather do that than lose weight and it's not being lazy or not having self control. It's making a choice.
    If he wanted to be slim but couldn't bring himself to stop eating then he'd have a lack of self control.

    I used to be very slim, then went on some medication which made me quite overweight. I decided to get a bit slimmer so dieted and lost around a stone....so I do have the self control.
    I am just happier being somewhat overweight and getting to eat what I want when I want. I still exercise so I'm not particularly unfit and you couldn't call me lazy but I'm definitely carrying some extra weight.

    I still think your post is a bunch of bull. You can't tarr everyone with the same brush, it's not how people work.
    Even if a fatty does have a lack of self control when it comes to food and is a bit lazy is it really going to affect their partner? Unless they want to go to the gym together every night who bloody cares?
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    Anorexic/Bulimic girl says: WHALE

    Slim girl says: Fat

    Curvy Girl says: Chubby

    Aforementioned slim girl who said fat and has now turned obese says: Curvy

    Fat girl says: Slim

    Whale girl says: [silence] *eating doughnut*
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    (Original post by Justin Hammer)
    He probably eats absolute **** which is probably detrimental to his sporting endeavor. Unless you're gonna be an absolute tool and tell me that he eats well too, how stupid do you think we are? I hate this garbage excuse women come out with, your fat percentage is a reflection of what you eat and the amount of exercise you perform with genetics playing a minor role. However there is no such thing as a genetic predisposition to being fat even if you exercise regularly. Stop bull****ting, your boyfriend does not exercise enough hence he is out of shape. It irritates me how so many seem to defy the laws of science so often, no you just eat too much.
    he eats a truckload, I never said otherwise.:rolleyes:

    I was just saying that being fat doesn't mean your lazy, have no self control or any of that other rubbish.
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    It doesn't help that she is sat like Jabba the Hut.
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    (Original post by The*Doctor's*Rose)
    because some people do not bother to strive for a good career or job; they live off their social status and 'looks'. Your list is not always the case. And whoever said it was wrong to not strive to look good? It can be seen as narcissistic, you just have to take care of yourself; presentable clothes, nice hair; does being fat automatically mean that you don't strive to look good? No, if you are tubby you can still look pretty fine.
    Everybody wants different things; to you, being fat and 'unfit' is off-putting, but to someone else, she is a goddess.

    Why are we even judging people?? i hate it. I hate categorising people and saying that they will 'never get a hot boyfriend' or 'they will die'. :mad:

    I've been losing a lot of weight (just over 4 stone now!) and still more to lose, but i'm working towards it. In the meantime, my life doesn't come to a standstill because of this factor. I never want to be skinny, only healthy. And i'm doing it to be healthy, not for some arrogant person to rate 'my hotness' or for me to get a boyfriend.

    I've been subjected to and witnessed so many acts of bullying and neglect because people are so naive about the whole size issue. Start judging by the individual, not the mass. You have no idea what each person has gone/going through.
    Being fat means you will not look good. Part of looking good is looking attractive and fat is not attractive. This is extremely noticeable in countries which greatly value a persons appearance such as Japan.

    Also, stop lying and making **** up. Being unhealthy and out of shape is, and always will be unattractive. This is simple evolution for you. Fat and unhealthy has a lower chance of conception and survival thus is unattractive. If you disagree and have proof then I am sure every biologist would love to know why people have all of a sudden beaten nature.

    Sadly though, the mass IS the individual. Your weight is a result of your actions, and your actions sum up what type of person you are. Of course losing weight shows a good change, but do not lie to yourself and pretend that you were miss perfect before hand and that your weight was not a result of negligence and possible emotional issues.
    And just to let you in on a secret - almost everyone goes through ****, however some just manage to hide it better then others.....

    (Original post by Melanie-v)
    Some people don't strive to get into the best uni or get the best grades. Part of my class just doesn't care, and has other priorities. A lot of people strive to look good, but some don't want to bother. It just depends what you value most. Why judge them?

    It is down to taste. Some of my friends don't find the typical Asian look attractive but have asian friends. I don't really go for certain shades of blonde, though it depends on the person.

    Stop judging.
    Those who don't try will never get anywhere as they are complacent and lack ambition. Of course everyone is different, but not trying to be the best you can be only says negative things about a person.
    As for fat people, they actually have to go out of their way to be fat as they have to cook more then they need, buy lots of food etc. This shows the person to have many problems.

    (Original post by death.drop)
    He's a chef in a very upmarket hotel so he eats a lot and eats delicious, often indulgent food. He would rather do that than lose weight and it's not being lazy or not having self control. It's making a choice.
    If he wanted to be slim but couldn't bring himself to stop eating then he'd have a lack of self control.

    I used to be very slim, then went on some medication which made me quite overweight. I decided to get a bit slimmer so dieted and lost around a stone....so I do have the self control.
    I am just happier being somewhat overweight and getting to eat what I want when I want. I still exercise so I'm not particularly unfit and you couldn't call me lazy but I'm definitely carrying some extra weight.

    I still think your post is a bunch of bull. You can't tarr everyone with the same brush, it's not how people work.
    Even if a fatty does have a lack of self control when it comes to food and is a bit lazy is it really going to affect their partner? Unless they want to go to the gym together every night who bloody cares?
    So he actively chooses to look unattractive, be unhealthy, and make his sporting hobbies harder? Do you think he could stop eating? So he has become complacent at what age? That is pretty sad to be honest.

    Why are you happier? Does food mean that much to you or did you always have to try to be thin and now prefer not to have that strain? As I have said numerous times, how can you be happier when you are less attractive? This must lower your self esteem by some degree.

    As for living with a fat person - who would want to date someone who is lazy ( so would be lazy around the house with cleaning etc) and lets not forget, they would be unattractive as well.
    But to put it simply, find me an attractive and in shape person who dates a fatty.:rolleyes:
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    Is it any worse than people calling grotesquely under weight people 'athletic' in order to justify it? It's just as bad to be fat as it is to be skinny. Both will knock years off your life which is not okay.
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    Gorgeous face, hair and boobs though.
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    Yeah, shes just fat.
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    I would so hit that, s'all I'm going to contribute.:chaplin:
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    (Original post by colabottles)
    Does it matter if she's fat or curvy or whatever? She's gorgeous! And happy! I think she's a real woman, as is any other woman who's happy.
    So sad women are fiction? **** post.
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    (Original post by Jimbo1234)
    Being fat means you will not look good. Part of looking good is looking attractive and fat is not attractive. This is extremely noticeable in countries which greatly value a persons appearance such as Japan.

    Also, stop lying and making **** up. Being unhealthy and out of shape is, and always will be unattractive. This is simple evolution for you. Fat and unhealthy has a lower chance of conception and survival thus is unattractive. If you disagree and have proof then I am sure every biologist would love to know why people have all of a sudden beaten nature.

    Sadly though, the mass IS the individual. Your weight is a result of your actions, and your actions sum up what type of person you are. Of course losing weight shows a good change, but do not lie to yourself and pretend that you were miss perfect before hand and that your weight was not a result of negligence and possible emotional issues.
    And just to let you in on a secret - almost everyone goes through ****, however some just manage to hide it better then others.....
    Heh, you're not even worth the words i could type as a defence. I just laughed.
 
 
 
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