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Hmmm I'm not quite sure. Looking like he would crush me with his muscly weight is definitely too much, as is not being able to hold his arms by his sides I guess it would be still having noticeably a slim-ish frame, with just the muscle being added onto that rather than the defining factor of his physique.
I don't know if I'm explaining myself well at all lol. What's yours though?
If we're talking about muscle, I'm not actually fussy in terms of how big they are unless they look roided up as you described.
I'd say I wouldn't want a guy with absolutely no muscle definition either, but that's not even true as I have been with one!
A friend of mine doesn't exercise at all and is overweight, but that's because she can't as she's had back problems since birth. It's a bit sweeping to assume that every single person who doesn't exercise isn't doing it because they're lazy. Maybe they think that they're healthy and fit enough without working out, or maybe they simply don't care about such things, or maybe, like my friend, they have actual medical conditions. Sure laziness is probably the main cause of people not being bothered, but it won't be the only one.
(this applies to girls though, don't know if and how that affects the point made)
I thought you looked a lot like that already if that picture of you in a tshirt you wore before and after going to the gym, is anything to go by
yes I know how freakishly stalker-ish I sound
Of course as soon as I reach that, I'll want even bigger/leaner...such is life.