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    (Original post by Sabertooth)
    If you're going to keep upsetting other members then I suggest you find another "safe space". Just because you have NPD doesn't give you a free pass to belittle and insult other members. People here are just as expected to follow the rules as elsewhere on the site.
    Yet they have permission to attack me based on their ignorance about my condition? Right. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    gah, having another attack right now, yet again nothing i do to stop it is working.
    -hugs- if you haven't got an attack of the jelly legs yet, is there any chance you could get yourself a glass of water?
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    (Original post by Asexual Demigod)
    I'm sorry for existing.
    Okay, i've kept quiet but that's just ridiculous. Nobodies blaming you for existing, nobodies blaming you for having your own issues. We all have stuff we can't control and we all have stuff going on. However, people are blaming you for taking your issues out on other people. You need to find a better way of dealing with things than upsetting other people to feed your own ego and hide your own insecurities. Don't use the well that's how I deal with it" excuse it's unacceptable in here. This is a nice thread where people support each other and give advice etc not to insult other people. You've apologised to Panda but that's still too late as you already said what you've said and it upset her.
    Also, yes more censorship because as TSR rules state, no talk of suicide or self harm is allowed on the forum, purely because people could potentially be triggered by it.
    You get defensive over your mental illnesses but when somebody states they might get triggered over something you say they need to get off the internet, that's unacceptable because you don't know what they've gone through.

    If you can't be nice then don't say anything at all.
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    (Original post by Asexual Demigod)
    Yet they have permission to attack me based on their ignorance about my condition? Right. :rolleyes:
    I've been watching you and others in this thread and haven't seen anyone attack you without first being provoked. Even then, the vast majority of the insulting has been by you.

    If you feel people are attacking you then report it (the button in the top right of a post) and allow the moderators to deal with it.

    If you have a problem with the rules feel free to stop posting on TSR. If you feel that mods aren't doing their job then create a thread in AAH&RM.
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    (Original post by .snowflake.)
    -hugs- if you haven't got an attack of the jelly legs yet, is there any chance you could get yourself a glass of water?

    i went ang got one from downstairs. my breathing has quicken since i got back up to my room though.
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    (Original post by purple-duck)
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    What've you been up to today?
    not a lot really, going out for a half an hour drive (and enjoying it ) is about my biggest achievement of the day :lol: think im going stationary shopping tomorrow though :party: you?
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    (Original post by Asexual Demigod)
    I worked harder than anyone of you so stop pretending like you're better than me because you didn't achieve as much. See? It makes no sense.
    Actually I got the same grades as you, and I still think you are being very rude to everyone in here. I get that you have your issues but you can't keep using that as your excuse.

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    i wish i was calm right now.
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    I went to a party last night and made loads of people laugh. I'm not saying that I'm some bada$$ comedian or even a funny guy, but when I went so long thinking isolated and lonely, going out of my comfort zone to a party (granted family and family friends were there) making loads of people laugh and smile made me feel so good about myself
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    Can a guy be raped? When i was 14 in year 8 i got a call from a mutual friend. She said that she needed help with a lot of homework i of course said that i would help . However when i proposed that we should use face time she declined and told me to go to her house. Being mural friend i didn't know where she lived and so she told me to meet in front of the school and from there we would go to her home. This was very wired to me as when we met up she was holding my Hand. When we arrived at her home there was know one there. I was very worried and explained to her that i needed to go home. However she insisted on me staying. I don't know why but i accepted to stay. Bringing my bag with me i prepared to help her with her questions as i had done most of them already. After 5 minutes of waiting i called her as she went upstairs and hadn't returned. Around 2 mins later she called me up. So i did and when i got there she was naked . I told her to F off and was about to leave when she grabbed me and pushed me towards the bed. By know i don't know why but i had the urge ..... Well not to resist no longer and from there things escalated. I could not stop myself i remember telling her i cant do this however she replied saying she had to do this. After i didn't help her with her homework and just left. Crying on the way home i was shocked and really emotional. If you are wondering i am 17 now. Do you think this is rape ?


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    (Original post by guitaristemily)
    i wish i was calm right now.
    One ways that sometimes helps me get calm is by listening to the Robert Miles - Dreamland album. The songs Children (dream) and fable (dream) in particular help me. I'm not saying it will 100% work, but it has helped me calm down a few times
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    Can you pop that insde [ SPOILER] [/ SPOILER] tags for me chick? I know we've a few rape survivors on the thread. Men indeed can be raped. Whether the law calls it that, and not something else, I have no idea.

    (Original post by IDukem)
    I went to a party last night and made loads of people laugh. I'm not saying that I'm some bada$$ comedian or even a funny guy, but when I went so long thinking isolated and lonely, going out of my comfort zone to a party (granted family and family friends were there) making loads of people laugh and smile made me feel so good about myself
    YAY!! XD So pleased for you chick.
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    im no longer gonna post here guys, i feel like iv been bullied one to many times.

    you guys dont need to argue because of me.

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    (Original post by PandaWho)
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    im no longer gonna post here guys, i feel like iv been bullied one to many times.

    you guys dont need to argue because of me.

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    Woah, pandaaaa. It wasn't your fault this ruckus started.
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    (Original post by lauraaaaa)
    not a lot really, going out for a half an hour drive (and enjoying it ) is about my biggest achievement of the day :lol: think im going stationary shopping tomorrow though :party: you?
    Yays for enjoying the drive that's still good though
    Ooo :teeth: tell us what you get Ended up seeing a notebook in tesco while buying milk and maybe snatching it up... (Was reduced to clear/didn't want it to not be there :eek:)
    Sorting out the house mostly yesterday/next week - hung around cinema mostly today/got keys for that!
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    (Original post by .snowflake.)
    YAY!! XD So pleased for you chick.
    Thank you! I was given a few compliments too saying stuff like I'm kind cause put others ahead of myself. It really boosted my confidence up and makes me look forward to meeting new people even I'm still nervy about it all

    I hope all is well for you! :hugs:
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    (Original post by PandaWho)
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    im no longer gonna post here guys, i feel like iv been bullied one to many times.

    you guys dont need to argue because of me.

    :getmecoat:
    Please don't leave hun, we'd all miss you loads!


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    (Original post by purple-duck)
    Yays for enjoying the drive that's still good though
    Ooo :teeth: tell us what you get Ended up seeing a notebook in tesco while buying milk and maybe snatching it up... (Was reduced to clear/didn't want it to not be there :eek:)
    Sorting out the house mostly yesterday/next week - hung around cinema mostly today/got keys for that!


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    I think its important to recognise that people have different academic capabilities - someone can work equally hard as someone else (in the same circumstances) and still get lower/different grades - and that isn't either person's fault, just how it goes - and, luckily - academics isn't everything!

    So yes - you should be proud of your results, particularly when you struggled with MH - but it doesn't make you better than anyone else, which is the sort of vibe you seem to be giving off.

    And to add, as others have already (while I've been semi-trying to stay out of it) - there's really no need to be so rude to people - and that it's quite simple to read through the first page of the thread/follow from there. (And even worse to be rude to people who are being polite to you)

    I guess my advice to you is either to find a different community where you won't hurt people by your comments, but who will still help you with your conditions - or to change your attitude to others here pronto(if that isn't too harsh to say)
    :lol: a guy after my own heart, buying stationary all the time i don't know whether im going tomorrow or whether it'll be next week but im freakin excited about it :lol: but everyones moving to uni from today and i still have to wait two weeks!
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    Hello poppets!

    Use the ignore feature if somebody is upsetting you. Do not engage with them and just hit the report button or it'll continue to escalate and will make it harder for the mods to clean up.

    The very nature of the society means that people with a huge variety of illnesses will join in and, unfortunately, their illnesses can cause them to struggle to interact with others in a nice and friendly manner. Let's let it all settle down and return to our regularly scheduled support society, k?

    Inbox is open if anyone needs somebody to talk to *megahugs*

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    (Original post by IDukem)
    Thank you! I was given a few compliments too saying stuff like I'm kind cause put others ahead of myself. It really boosted my confidence up and makes me look forward to meeting new people even I'm still nervy about it all

    I hope all is well for you! :hugs:
    Eh, good days, bad days. Back to uni on Friday. WHERE THE FLIP HAS THE SUMMER GONE???????
 
 
 
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