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Planning to see an escort. Male, 19, virgin. Watch

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    Good luck, mate.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    And seeing an escort is going to suddenly change that? It is highly doubtful that it will to be honest.

    Just keep patient. Why the rush?
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    It's up to you man but if I was in your shoes I'd wait.

    I'd rather lose it late with a woman who actually likes me than early with a woman who is only there because I'm paying her.
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    If you're happy with that, then go for it. It seems this is affecting your confidence so if you think seeing a whore would put you straight (as it were) then I think you should go for it. Pay a decent sum of money for a classy gal, don't go for a cheap, dirty sket.
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    I'm nearly 20, i'm still a virgin... Just cos I want to wait for the right guy to come along doesn't make a blind bit of difference. Virginity means nothing. It is just a silly concept people come out with in school. You don't ever "lose" it physically in a sense (only females can technically, and even then, its a grey area), and i'm sure you'd regret it more if you lost it to an escort than someone you actually love.

    If someone really loved you, they wouldn't give a **** whether you were one or not. True that.
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    I wouldn't. Give it 10 years. For me the important bit on being a virgin was that no woman has chosen to sleep with you. Paying for it rather skews that.
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    If you have trouble talking to girls now, what do you think its going to be like when news gets out that you slept with a prostitute? As it inevitably will. You might find that no girl will want to touch you after that. As others have said, it just screams desperation. Have some patience and wait for the right person like everybody else. The only person who cares about you being a virgin is YOU. You'll probably regret it later...so where's the point? I fail to see it.
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    You'll still feel like a virgin if you still can't get laid afterwards.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    I don't really see a problem. A few people on here have (allegedly) used prostitutes, and I haven't seen them express any feelings of regret. It will probably improve your confidence and at the very least you'll have some idea of what you're doing when you have sex for the second time. As long as you have the money to spare, knock yourself out.

    (In case you're worried about it being illegal, prostitution is actually legal in the UK...)
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    (Original post by maljebo)
    go for it if she takes 13 second bookings
    lol
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    (Original post by TheQuickestSilver)
    Haha this guy at my school done this and he ended up with thrush on his mouth because he licked her out haha. Poor lad, couldn't help but lauf though.
    LMAO, who the hell licks out prostitutes??? smh
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    I'm totally 50:50 on this one. I really want the sex, in fact it is a turn on in a weird way that the girl will be an escort. However, the other half of me is just really afraid of what might go wrong. What will happen when i first get there etc? Will be very awkward?
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    (Original post by TheRealDarthVader)
    Brah won't regret. Hombre needs to get laid.


    It would be cheaper to go to a club and buy a few drinks for the ugly girl no one touches.

    Fat girls put out more, but due to their size they require more alcohol to lose control of their inhibitions.

    If you want a guarenteed lay get some rohypnol.
    where can i buy some of this stuff?
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    Do what you will.
    But remember, at some point in your life you will have at LEAST one conversation with friends, future girlfriends, or whoever, about how you lost your virginity. Do you really want your honest response to be 'I paid a stranger'?
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    (Original post by dog24)
    just go for it, as long as you're sure you can't wait any longer, I understand how you feel, I felt the same frustration, when I finally did sleep with a girl (just some girl at a party) the sex was pretty crap, but the feeling of losing it is liberating, contrary to all these annoying people who say it needs to be special, we have needs, and your first time will always be below par no matter what..
    and you quoted me why?

    I never said anything about it being special.

    If he wants to do it, he wants to do it, but if his age has something to do with it I was just saying 19 isn't that old. Also, I feel sleeping with someone at a party and sleeping with an escort is quite different.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm totally 50:50 on this one. I really want the sex, in fact it is a turn on in a weird way that the girl will be an escort. However, the other half of me is just really afraid of what might go wrong. What will happen when i first get there etc? Will be very awkward?
    Please stop complaining about trivia, and just go ahead with it. At the amount you are paying her, the escort will do whatever you want (within reason obviously) for the hour. When you get there, you can ask her to pretend to get seduced by you, talk to you, strip for you... whatever. Nothing will go wrong, her entire job is to make sure that doesn't happen.
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    (Original post by mehhh.....hi.)
    your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally i think you should wait a few more years.
    shaytards!!!
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    If I was you I'd wait, I can guarantee you'll find someone that you don't need to pay. Just go clubbing and fish around...
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    I laugh at the girls in this thread who are saying things like 'wait for the right person to come along blah blah, blah blah'. That doesn't happen for men who aren't 6ft tall and good looking. Full stop. Period. Unless he is able to approach women he will be alone forever (or forever alone, whichever you prefer) and even then his odds aren't that great. It's cold but it's the truth.

    Just do what I do and what others have suggested and just forget about women and stop worrying, they are unobtainable anyway. Even as I type this I feel nothing, no sadness or anger or frustration but I will admit that for about one second everyday I feel worried that I will let my guard down and begin to feel those emotions again.
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    (Original post by dog24)
    just go for it, as long as you're sure you can't wait any longer, I understand how you feel, I felt the same frustration, when I finally did sleep with a girl (just some girl at a party) the sex was pretty crap, but the feeling of losing it is liberating, contrary to all these annoying people who say it needs to be special, we have needs, and your first time will always be below par no matter what..
    Yup, the first time is pretty much crap. It'll probably not be painful or especially scary but it won't be nearly as good as sex can be. You will probably have no idea what you're doing and if you're trying to do it with another virgin it's even worse. I did, neither of us came. People say they want their first time to be special, and sure it sort of is because it's the first time, but in a society where very few people spend the rest of their lives with the person to whom they lost their virginity, I wouldn't hold out for the perfect girl if I were you. But then again, I'd be cautious of escorts. Remember, curiosity killed the cat.
 
 
 
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