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    mate you sound in a great mood considering whats happened, i split up with my girlfriend in march (3 years relationship) and tbh, you're either putting on a brave face, or you're a strong individual .

    anyway..... the facebook idea's a good one, trying to take up a hobby is another one... sports etc.

    oh, and 99% of relationships ended for a reason, going back to them is not moving on in life, its moving backwards. imo anyway.
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      Thanks Darren, much appreciated!
      You're welcome.
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      The best tool for revenge is success.
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      Anyone have any tips for getting over their ex-partners? My girlfriend of 3+ years has recently finished with me and I just can't get over it or her.

      My house mates have been awesome, friends amazing and even to my surprise my parents have been so caring and helpful, but I'm still struggling an immense amount

      I have read the break up article on here and its actually been pretty useful

      Any advice would be greatly appreciated . Or should I just try and try to win her back? Would she like this? Would it work? or do I just have to move on?

      Thank you
      break ups are never easy even after a 3 year relationship. If the break up was over something silly then there is a chance of getting back together but if the break up was over something that is not silly, don't bother.

      It will get easier over time, time is the best cure but never go into a different relationship as you'll be still hankering over your ex so give it time. Make the most out of being single, hang out with friends and family, get drunk with friends.

      good luck

      and take darren advice first
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      I'm gonna sound like a right saddo but I find that reading the chapters about Love and Sorrow from Khalil Gibran's The Prophet helps to understand why I'm in so much pain. I came out of a 7 year relationship in the summer.
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      Turn your love into hate or just let time heal you.
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      Haagen-Dazs ice-cream when you're feeling low and take new hobbies, something to draw your mind into.
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      Delete her number and facebook, time will heal all. You're young and there's no such thing as the one.
     
     
     
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