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    (Original post by effofex)
    Women in clubs are looking for fit men who they can take home for a hot shag and discuss the aesthetics of (especially what's down there!) with their friends (bezzies) the next morning.
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    Confidence is a made up thing so women can reject a guy without looking shallow. Confident men that she doesn't like become arrogant. There is nothing wrong with it. They just like to make men believe they are the shallow ones and men are stupid enough to fall for it.
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    Height is important because it gets you noticed in the cramped areas that are clubs. Build achieves roughly the same effect. Looks are for phase two, when you emerge back into the street. Confidence comes automatically with the 3 others.
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    So a tall jacked guy should theoretically do well in clubs? I really should get out more as I'm 189cm and 96kg of muscle (6'2" and 15 stones or something like that) but I've only been to a club twice in my entire life.
    However this only solves half the problem- say a girl came up to you, what does one do then? (I'm being serious here, I really don't know)
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    5'4 or above.
    Not extra skinny or extra fat.
    Good Looks
    Not bothered by confidence. I'm more attracted to quieter well spoken guys
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    (Original post by bino756)
    5'4 or above.
    Not extra skinny or extra fat.
    Good Looks
    Not bothered by confidence. I'm more attracted to quieter well spoken guys
    and you think a girl actually cares about a quiet well spoken guy when she's in a noisy club and off her face?

    lol :rofl:
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    (Original post by xfactorfan)
    and you think a girl actually cares about a quiet well spoken guy when she's in a noisy club and off her face?

    lol :rofl:
    that's where I always find myself but I don't drink.
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    Looks, build and height kind of go together. They all have something to do with how good you look.
    One of my friends is all about the build - if she sees a guy with a good body then she can cope with an ok face. For me, it's more about the face/ hair. Height isn't really an issue because I'm only 5 ft 2" so pretty much all guys are taller than me!
    Confidence isn't important as people seem to think...the girl can always approach the guy. As long as they aren't that shy that they don't make any effort at all and cower in a corner then it's fine. It's good to act approachable and smile though
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So a tall jacked guy should theoretically do well in clubs? I really should get out more as I'm 189cm and 96kg of muscle (6'2" and 15 stones or something like that) but I've only been to a club twice in my entire life.
    However this only solves half the problem- say a girl came up to you, what does one do then? (I'm being serious here, I really don't know)
    Dance with/rub against her! I don't know if you're good looking or not, but at least she'll feel somewhat attracted to your build/height.
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    The most important thing that dictates whether I get girls is my haircut. I never understood why I didn't get any girls on some nights and loads on other nights. You need a haircut that fits the shape of your face. It is vitally important- I know very plain/average looking guys who get plenty of girls and they are built like little **** and are nothing special looking whatsoever. It has to be the haircut they have that makes them look good.

    edit: V-cut haircuts are pretty good. My mate has a proper baby face and has some dodgy side parting and gets lots of girls, cause his hair is good. Don't get really short haircuts cause they look crap. Thank me later.
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    I don't care about any of that as long as she's fit
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    (Original post by Lamps08)
    The most important thing that dictates whether I get girls is my haircut. I never understood why I didn't get any girls on some nights and loads on other nights. You need a haircut that fits the shape of your face. It is vitally important- I know very plain/average looking guys who get plenty of girls and they are built like little **** and are nothing special looking whatsoever. It has to be the haircut they have that makes them look good.
    fair play. what cuts do they like?
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    (Original post by doodle7)
    Looks, build and height kind of go together. They all have something to do with how good you look.
    One of my friends is all about the build - if she sees a guy with a good body then she can cope with an ok face. For me, it's more about the face/ hair. Height isn't really an issue because I'm only 5 ft 2" so pretty much all guys are taller than me!
    Confidence isn't important as people seem to think...the girl can always approach the guy. As long as they aren't that shy that they don't make any effort at all and cower in a corner then it's fine. It's good to act approachable and smile though
    Hey what haircut do you like? I have been noticing this has a huge impact on my success rates. I really wish someone told me about this ages ago....
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    (Original post by rugbyladosc)
    fair play. what cuts do they like?
    All I know is that if i a good haircut I look much better. With a good haircut alot of people always comment on it and my general appearance, and nothing has ever changed besides my haircut so it must be my haircut lol.

    I usually just get a short back and sides, and have it cut choppy(?) I think my barber said. I think most people go for V-cuts like my barber has and it looks pretty good. This new barber and said he fades it or something at the back and sides. It just seems to makes my face a better shape after the cut, so i look better.

    edit: But it depends on the person as to what haircut they get. Some people look good with really short hair for example. Try and go to a very good barber to get some ideas. There's one in fulham broadway called Jason Shankey which is suppossed to be good. Someone screwed up my haircut recently because my new barber was away so i shaved it all off and it looks crap now lol.
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    (Original post by Lamps08)
    Hey what haircut do you like? I have been noticing this has a huge impact on my success rates. I really wish someone told me about this ages ago....
    Haha I thought it was just me that has the hair fetish - it probably isn't representative of the female species! Personally, I like short dark hair. Styled. A bit of gel/ wax goes a long way! Google Penn Badgley
    Some of my friends prefer the slightly longer haired look. Try Chase Crawford. Depends on the guy I guess, but both are good!
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    (Original post by M1F2R3)
    I don't think many women are into small men.
    Height seems to always be the deal breaker. I know a LOT of women, and height is the only 'requirement' that ALWAYS comes up.
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    (Original post by doodle7)
    Haha I thought it was just me that has the hair fetish - it probably isn't representative of the female species! Personally, I like short dark hair. Styled. A bit of gel/ wax goes a long way! Google Penn Badgley
    Some of my friends prefer the slightly longer haired look. Try Chase Crawford. Depends on the guy I guess, but both are good!
    I look like Penn Badgley, probably better actually lol actually defo better
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    mostly confidence then looks then height then build
    who agrees
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    (Original post by Lamps08)
    I look like Penn Badgley, probably better actually lol actually defo better
    Ha in that case, marry me?
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    (Original post by INTJ)
    Height seems to always be the deal breaker. I know a LOT of women, and height is the only 'requirement' that ALWAYS comes up.
    It is very important but don't be fooled into thinking height is everything. It is probably for the really good looking girls, but you can be Mr. Average and do better than a tall guy if you simply change your haircut and clothes for example.

    edit: Also build really isn't too important. The first thing girls notice and pay attention to is your face.
 
 
 
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