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    (Original post by Xhotas)
    Losing your virginity will be a disaster, no easy way of putting it. It'll be either 2 strokes and done or 45 minutes later and no erection. The latter is personal experience :')
    Funny but, the latter seems to happen to me pretty much every single time I've ever attempted to have sex.
    Fortunately I have some little blue pills that I can heartily reccomend to the OP
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    (Original post by Boobies.)
    God if a guy hasn't jacked his load in 2 hours then **** it, I'm putting the telly on.
    LMAO
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Last Saturday me and my girlfriend almost had sex, until we heard the scraping of they key as my Mum returned home early...
    Secretly, I was quite glad because I've never had sex before and I'm really afraid that I won't be able to maintain my erection because I'm nervous about it being rubbish for my girlfriend. This in turn makes it less and less likely for me being able to keep the fire burning, making me more worried - you can see where this is going...

    I've spoken to my girlfriend about it and she was very understanding (she isn't a virgin) and reassured me that she loves me and doesn't care what happens - that it will get better quickly as I get used to it. But for some reason, I still find myself really nervous about it because I just don't like failing at things... especially something as awesome as sex!!!

    Can anyone offer me any help/words of advise?

    brah bad attitude. problem is you see sex as something shrouded in mystery - you don't know how to make it good for your girl, so you're frightened.

    here's the secret: sex is all psychological - on your part as well. by being nervous, you aren't performing and THAT means she isn't happy.

    you gotta think of your fantasies if you're having trouble and treat it as if you were going solo. think of celebrities, think of how sexy your gf looks, think of doing her this way that way, think of a horse penetrating her - i don't know your deal lol.

    also you need a basic anatomy lesson - go educate yourself on sex on in the net - it won't be as mysterious as you think. ANYTHING you do will be good. Do foreplay. Finger her, kiss her - build up to the vagina - it is very sensitive, kiss the inner thighs, and build up - don't be nervous, be animalistic and sensual, kiss down the labia, and build up to the clit because it's very very sensitive and contains as many nerve endings as your entire penis. i'm not going into too much detail here i hope. if you go down on her - trust me on this, especially for a virgin - lick the alphabet.

    the point is you need foreplay to warm her up - girls aren't like guys, they aren't like a lightswitch....though some girls for their first time with a guy may be a little insecure about a guy going down on them and so if your girl feels that way stick with fingering - watch videos. Also beware of porn films and fence licking - it's all for the camera.
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    (Original post by Boobies.)
    Seems wrong then.
    Non stop humping for just shy of 2 hours without orgasms?

    I'd rather sex it up for 40 mins and *** a few times, thanks.
    It doesn't have to be humping for 2 hours. Sex isn't just about thrusting, there's plenty of oral sex and foreplay to be had. And if you add lubes, lotions and sex toys to the equation you can have a whole night of fun!
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    (Original post by Drunk Punx)
    If you watched videos on Xhamster, then you'd know that they can sell you certain pills for a great price... :moon:
    Xhamster may well be the best website ever created.
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    (Original post by Law123mus)
    It doesn't have to be humping for 2 hours. Sex isn't just about thrusting, there's plenty of oral sex and foreplay to be had. And if you add lubes, lotions and sex toys to the equation you can have a whole night of fun!
    Ah yes but he wasn't talking about foreplay, he said he 'lasted two hours'. That is generally in reference to the sex part of sexxytime.
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    You may just *** reallly quickly.

    Solution: have a tactical **** just before you do it.
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    yeh, stop being a pussy.
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    (Original post by Boobies.)
    Ah yes but he wasn't talking about foreplay, he said he 'lasted two hours'. That is generally in reference to the sex part of sexxytime.
    Ok fair enough. But is it even possible for a man to have pure sex for 2 hours? I know I couldn't. Anyone that can do that deserves a medal!
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    (Original post by Law123mus)
    Ok fair enough. But is it even possible for a man to have pure sex for 2 hours? I know I couldn't. Anyone that can do that deserves a medal!
    I did that on like my third time, it's still a personal record.

    Largely because she brought along some pasante "extra safe" condoms and it kind of killed everything off... I'm fairly sure I had no nerve activity in my **** at all...

    She couldn't walk straight for about four days though, which I found hilarious Also it was on a floor in a friends house, and we both had grazed elbows/shins/arses from carpet burn....


    Yeah, actually I'd rather just have a more normal duration of sex and not be injured...
 
 
 
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