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    Very, imo. I do it sometimes and, when I do, I just feel worse about myself. :emo:
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    It is very important.
    I can't help it though.
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    You must always compare yourself to others, otherwise what drive and determination will you have, who can you spire to be, to defeat?

    The real key is to know your strengths, to know what you might be able to achieve, and aim for it. I mean, sure, I'd like to be the next Einstein, but I'm aware that it just isn't going to happen. Doesn't stop me having aspirations though, it just gives me some grounding.
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    For every person you perceive better than you, find a chav to balance it out with :p:

    Works every time
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    The problem is the goals constantly change. Once you reach the goal in your head its no longer adequate this is why for example you get miserable lottery winners.

    What happens when that Rolex is stolen ?
    What happens when you loose your job ?
    What happens if you loose the respect of your friends ?

    are you suddenly less of a person? are you defined by these things ?

    You can have goals/ambitions but becoming too attached to them will cause discontent with what you have. This then causes unhappiness.
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    I think it's PC *******s (the saying).

    Everybody has different circumstances in life. But part of living also is to strive and grow. So comparing is not bad per se.

    I think if a person does it a lot, or feels inadequate a lot, then it's probably a self-esteem issue. We cannot be totally equal if we are all different, and nobody is truly superior to anybody else.
 
 
 
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