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    (Original post by xxxchrisxxx)
    I think that's something only your bf can answer.

    yup I know...thanks for your honesty though
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    Yeah.. particularly when I was younger. Not sure why.
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    if I'm in a group of people I talk to the people I would usually talk to most
    if it's just me and another, I talk to them like I'd talk to anybody else

    there's no hidden agenda
    i might appear distant to someone when i'm in a group but that's only because i'm closer to other people
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    Or maybe he sees you as a friend but you're so utterly embarrassing he doesn't want anyone else to know he has anything to do with you?
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    Yes, I shiver from time to time.
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    I do this ALL girls I fancy. Dont know why lol
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    Unfortunately, yes. I did it the other day to this really fit girl
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    (Original post by ChunkymunkyDJC)
    Unfortunately, yes. I did it the other day to this really fit girl
    Why did you do it?
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    yes.

    dont like others to know i like her. simples.
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    Being cold and distant at random times from a girl I fancied actually increased her attraction to me.

    not everyone likes being romantic in public
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    I'm like it with my girlfriend, purely because it makes other people uncomfortable when you get all lovey-dovey and stuff.
    Same with kissing. I'll give her a little peck when her or my friends are about but we go for it when we're alone
    Probably a similar thing - he doesn't want everyone knowing he likes you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why did you do it?
    I got nervous around her, not so much because my mates were with me tbh but just because I get nervous around girls I like
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    As a girl yes. Not unless i have something to say to her or if he start a conversation first.
    Also, i don't like giving attention to guys that much even if im crazy about them.
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    Normally I run up and pull her hair, then tell my friend to tell her friend that I fancy her.

    Ohnowait we aren't 12 anymore!

    It means he is socially and emotionally awkward (like many people on here!), not that he doesnt like you.
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    I seem to have a passion for men who rapidly blow hot and cold.
    It is disgustingly irritating, however i like to be optimistic, and reckon that atleast it means that he's into you enough to contemplate how much he should show you he's interested to keep you interested. Positive thinking.
    Men are ridiculous.
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    If he is still being friendly, then its probably just that he doesn't like to make other people feel uncomfortable with PDF (public displays of flirting).

    If he is actually being unfriendly, then either he is a social retard, or he is secretly embarrassed by you and doesn't want his mates to know that he is trying to **** you. This is not a good sign. He will probably have sex with you a few times, then he will invert his own self-repulsion at his lack of self-control into anger and tell everyone he knows that you're an ugly slut with Herpes.
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    I won't act cold but I'll usually act pretty shy, the two things are usually mixed up which makes it 10x harder for shy guys
 
 
 
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