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    I think most women have a fairly average sex drive, but it can go up and down with her cycle. Mine is fairly high in comparison to some other female friends I talk to about this. But it doesnt cause any problems.
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    (Original post by snowyowl)
    Very high, so high the boyfriend can't keep up it doesn't help that his sex drive is almost gone and I get sex twice a month, or maybe three times if I'm lucky...
    You should probably try talking to him about it...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I generally think women didn't really have much of a sex drive and seem to turn it down pretty readily. But my friend was sayin how demanding his g/f is with it and as a very sexually charged man, I think I need a girlfriend who has a decent sex drive.
    That's a lie that most women don't have high sex drives. Obviously it varies, but there isn't a general rule that they don't have one.

    I have quite a high one personally.
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      Thats a bit harsh saying he's selfish, I mean men cant really control their dingalings, I would take it as a compliment that he founds you that attractive. They're not like pussies where you don't really have to do anything, just saying he prob doesn't mean to be
      He could have taken care of her a bit first before diving in though? If I was worried that I wasn't going to do the trick in coito, I'd try and make sure she came before I entered, or try and stimulate her while I was inside her.

      Though, that might be because nothing is more of a turn-on to me than seeing a girl feeling intense pleasure.
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      (Original post by Tootles)
      He could have taken care of her a bit first before diving in though? If I was worried that I wasn't going to do the trick in coito, I'd try and make sure she came before I entered, or try and stimulate her while I was inside her.

      Though, that might be because nothing is more of a turn-on to me than seeing a girl feeling intense pleasure.
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      I wish all men were like this.
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        (Original post by snowyowl)
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        I wish all men were like this.
        Heh heh, thanks.
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          (Original post by snowyowl)
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          I wish all men were like this.
          Quoted you again just in case you've already read my response.

          I forgot to say this before: the thing that worries me is whether or not, when I eventually do find a girlfriend, said girlfriend will be confident enough to be willing to let me perform oral on her, and other similar such stuff. I'll not worry about how demanding she is, because, by the looks of it, you women are more demanding than we men think. I'd want her to be demanding of me, because I like a challenge, and I like to get really... into my challenges
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          (Original post by snowyowl)
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          I wish all men were like this.
          Hey, a lot of us are, although I think it's probably those who lack experience who are the least likely to try to make things good for you.

          The main problem in that case is guidance. Just like no 17 year old girl knows how to give a decent blow job, no 17 year old guy is going to be any good at getting girls off. Sorry, fact of life I guess
          If you want to make things better (and have the eternal thanks of any of his future girlfriends) then teach him. Everyone has to learn some time...

          (Original post by Tootles)
          Quoted you again just in case you've already read my response.

          I forgot to say this before: the thing that worries me is whether or not, when I eventually do find a girlfriend, said girlfriend will be confident enough to be willing to let me perform oral on her, and other similar such stuff. I'll not worry about how demanding she is, because, by the looks of it, you women are more demanding than we men think. I'd want her to be demanding of me, because I like a challenge, and I like to get really... into my challenges
          If you're going to cyber do it by pm
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            (Original post by TShadow383)
            Hey, a lot of us are, although I think it's probably those who lack experience who are the least likely to try to make things good for you.

            The main problem in that case is guidance. Just like no 17 year old girl knows how to give a decent blow job, no 17 year old guy is going to be any good at getting girls off. Sorry, fact of life I guess
            If you want to make things better (and have the eternal thanks of any of his future girlfriends) then teach him. Everyone has to learn some time...


            If you're going to cyber do it by pm
            Hey, I was just trying to convey all of what I thought. And voice my concern about confidence in women; I've heard a lot of people say that many women are insecure enough about themselves to not let their boyfriends do anything the involves them seeing what they're doing. I suppose I was sort of asking for opinions on that, to be honest.
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            I think it all depends on where abouts a girl is in her cycle. If I'm in the middle of my cycle then you're more inclined to be more "aroused" more of the time. However, some girls may be naturally "horny" more of the time than others. It just depends on a lot of things really - but I reckon it is generally true that men have a higher sex drive than women.
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            medium I'd say. lower than my bfs anyway, sex 3/4 times a week is right for me in a 'normal' week, if we see each other everyday that is.
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            Yes, but sometimes the reason girls refuse it is because they don't want to feel like a slut, not because they don't want it x
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            (Original post by Tootles)
            I've heard a lot of people say that many women are insecure enough about themselves to not let their boyfriends do anything the involves them seeing what they're doing. I suppose I was sort of asking for opinions on that, to be honest.
            My first girlfriend I had sex with was very relaxed about her sexuality and really open, but there were still times when she got uncomfortable with some things.

            Girls are much slower to warm to new ideas with a new partner than guys are. Only the extremely liberated girls will be forthcoming in what they want on your first time with her.

            I learned that a girls mood and how she is feeling is absolutely crucial; and how you approach sexual matters makes a big difference. EG. Pushing something too hard will make her say no. Presenting an idea and then giving her space to think about it, if she needs it, tends to work better. It sounds obvious, but it takes years to properly figure out.
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            yep, definitely, i seem to have the mind of a guy but no one expects it from me caus i act all normal-ish and calm on the outside. I think i have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend but he doesn't seem to mind
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            Yes I would say that I do
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            (Original post by Anonymous)
            I'd say I have a high sex drive, ideally I'd like sex at least once a day all month and twice or more a day at certain times of the month.

            My ex boyfriend had a sex drive higher than mine, he wanted sex ALL THE TIME, even after several years he'd still do it 4 times a day if he could.

            Unfortunately my current boyfriend doesn't seem as interested in sex. He has a laugh at me because I always initiate, and he doesn't seem to think it is important enough to put the effort in. It never lasts more than 10 minutes including foreplay, and if I don't orgasm he never asks if I've had enough or if there is anything he can do for me. Think I've only had oral sex once in the last 3 months too I still initiate sex, because any sex is better than no sex, but it really isn't that great. He seems to think it is more important to cook a nice dinner while I think screw the food, I want decent sex. And I DO think sex is as important as intimacy, perhaps even more so.

            Damn, life isn't fair

            Damn, I felt sad reading your story. You guys should try doing something together to improve the sex, like see some help together, otherwise you are just going to get more frustrated !!

            I have been in a new relationship now for about a month. Every time we hang out we make love, 5/7 times a week. It has made me so much happier in my relationship and I feel so much more loved now. My previous girl was letting me play with her only a strict 4 or so times a month. It sucked and unfortunately made me look at more porn than I had intended on.

            Anyway, Good luck :-)
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            Mine is ridiculous, several times a day is perfect.
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            I have a high sex drive but I am in a LDR so I don't have sex until I see my boyfriend.
           
           
           
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