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    Corfu '06?
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    This thread merited a giggle when I saw the title. Congrats.
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    This thread's making another great argument for never ever telling your gf what you're really thinking about :rolleyes:

    c'mon it's not worse than thinking about other men when you're _doing it_ with your bloke and lots of women do that.
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    It’s very common and nothing to worry about. The only weird thing is that he told you, I think he probably feels guilty for doing it and needed to confess (which I think is pretty selfish).

    Of course people think about others, do you ever imagine yourself with another guy? Fantasies are just fantasies and as long as he isn't inappropriate with it or with them, I can't see a problem.
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    (Original post by IFondledAGibbon)
    It’s very common and nothing to worry about. The only weird thing is that he told you, I think he probably feels guilty for doing it and needed to confess (which I think is pretty selfish).

    Of course people think about others, do you ever imagine yourself with another guy? Fantasies are just fantasies and as long as he isn't inappropriate with it or with them, I can't see a problem.
    This.

    A lot of guys do look and do **** over their friends. Just don't mention it because it freaks them out :P

    & guys think differently, just because he ****s over them doesn't mean he is going to leave you for them/try it on with them. Just means he finds them physically attractive.
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    To be honest yep I would be concerned about this, I dont have an issue with my boyfriend watching porn but if he masterbated over my friends Id have to probably leave him!
    He does, undoubtedly. It's the taboo.
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    Lad?
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    It is a little weird, but at least he's being honest about it. Plus, it's not as if he's actually doing anything wrong or acting on any kind of feelings, and if he's otherwise a good boyfriend I wouldn't really be worrying Just be happy you have such an open and honest relationship and leave him to do whatever he likes with his own thoughts when he's on his own...
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    I can't believe he told you. What a colossal idiot.
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    Are you upset cos he doesnt do it over you?

    (no offence meant just had to get it out)
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    I'm pretty sure most guys on here will confess to going on to facebook and seeing there ''friends'' holiday pictures with them in bikini's etc. and well ... taking care of themself.

    I'm glad I joined TSR.
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    If I were you I'd question why you are in a relationship with guy that appears to have no idea how to be in a relationship
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    That's weird... :/
    Why doesn't he **** over you?
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    (Original post by wm123)
    WhyTF did he tell you this lol.
    Seems an idiot.
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    Gotta wonder how this can be a big problem in a relationship if everything else is fine.

    Anyway - you can't control another persons every conscious thought... you'd be a bit of a bunny boiler to think you should be doing that IMO.
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    he is clearly hinting at a threesome/orgy with your mates
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    (Original post by TheFlyingDutchman)
    I'm pretty sure most guys on here will confess to going on to facebook and seeing there ''friends'' holiday pictures with them in bikini's etc. and well ... taking care of themself.

    I'm glad I joined TSR.
    Yup it's more common than the OP thinks, nothing wrong with it of course...i do it sometimes, like i might hate the girl but she is hott..so i dont feel bad about it, also at the end of the day it is a massive compliment to a girl...just don;t tell them, you know what girls are like "OMFG SUCH A PERVERTED FREEEEK AM TELIN POLICE"

    At the end of the day you find them attractive enough to do it, huge compliment...OP its very common im sure...just weird he told you
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    There is nothing you can do OP. Kinda makes you think whether or not he really wanted your friends but got stuck with you don't it?
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    Pretty normal, surely?

    Guys masturbate over loads of girls in their minds. Although I can understand it would annoy you.
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    (Original post by Soph1990)
    To be honest yep I would be concerned about this, I dont have an issue with my boyfriend watching porn but if he masterbated over my friends Id have to probably leave him!
    I advise you to leave him. He almost certainly does this.
 
 
 
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