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    man they seriasly dissed you my advice is to put eyedrops in their coffees, or maybe ether if you can get some see what happens.
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    (Original post by Natha_Lite)
    I've seen this exact same thread before
    I thought it looked familiar.....
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    (Original post by Flyingaround)
    But why not laugh with me
    Because it isn't funny. At all.

    The person you just quoted is taking the piss out of you. Like everyone else.

    You sound a bit stupid to me tbh... in the nicest way possible.
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    *laughs at OP behind his back

    and *torrential rain.
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    (Original post by Flyingaround)
    Did you reply to it?
    they were laughing because you walked in and started bombarding them them inconsequential details about your life for no reason whatsoever which was frankly unneccessary and would have made you come across as a bit desperate...
    Happy ?
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    (Original post by CHEETS)
    they were laughing because you walked in and started bombarding them them inconsequential details about your life for no reason whatsoever which was frankly unneccessary and would have made you come across as a bit desperate...
    Happy ?
    I am desperate as I have no friends around me, haven't talked to anyone in person for 2 months, I am on the verge of commiting suicide
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    (Original post by Blutarsky)
    Because it isn't funny. At all.

    The person you just quoted is taking the piss out of you. Like everyone else.

    You sound a bit stupid to me tbh... in the nicest way possible.
    So I deserve to be taken the piss out of? Should I kill myself then? Why am I stupid, I'm not good at talking, I dont have many friends and havent talked to someone in person for 2 months now
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    (Original post by Flyingaround)
    I am desperate as I have no friends around me, haven't talked to anyone in person for 2 months, I am on the verge of commiting suicide


    Why so ?
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    Your quite skingy with your money. Personally I'd rather pay extra and NOT walk for 2 miles or whatever in the rain.
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    (Original post by Blutarsky)
    Because it isn't funny. At all.

    The person you just quoted is taking the piss out of you. Like everyone else.

    You sound a bit stupid to me tbh... in the nicest way possible.
    So you're saying I'm a stupid person because I am lonely, need someone to talk to, and it was funny! It's better to laugh at your bad situation of having to walk through the rain than to be a miserable person moaning about things, I bet that's you then, someone who is nasty to people and moans about everything.
    Do you want me to commit suicide, because every single person does laugh behind my back and if I could understand that it's because i am a good person then that's ok, but if I've done something wrong like you are saying then I want to die
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    (Original post by Flyingaround)
    So I deserve to be taken the piss out of? Should I kill myself then? Why am I stupid, I'm not good at talking, I dont have many friends and havent talked to someone in person for 2 months now
    I didn't say you deserve it.

    What I mean is:

    Being friendly is good. Having some idle chit-chat about a load of crap and leaving is perfectly fine. Once you pay though, that's it. Forget it. You don't have a rapport with that person.
    You on the other hand seem to think you're making friends with these people. They see THOUSANDS of people everyday and I'm sure they talk to a lot of them too. It's doubtful they remember you. When you come in and tell them about your life as if they give a ****, you look like a stupid idiot, hence why they are laughing.
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    (Original post by Blutarsky)
    I didn't say you deserve it.

    What I mean is:

    Being friendly is good. Having some idle chit-chat about a load of crap and leaving is perfectly fine. Once you pay though, that's it. Forget it. You don't have a rapport with that person.
    You on the other hand seem to think you're making friends with these people. They see THOUSANDS of people everyday and I'm sure they talk to a lot of them too. It's doubtful they remember you. When you come in and tell them about your life as if they give a ****, you look like a stupid idiot, hence why they are laughing.
    It's a small shop, and the other woman asked how my trip to london was, previous to that she only found out I was going to london because I was walking down the street in front of her and she said where you off too (This is a woman I havent really talked to in morrisons) Yet she remembers me again a week later when I was instore and asked how my trip was.
    Now the other girl is always talking and asking if I'm alright because she is actually chatting to me, what's wrong with that. If someone talks to me seriously, I am going to talk back. especially because I get lonely and this is the only place I meet people and they remember me
    If I can't have this little bit of chat then I have won't have much left
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    (Original post by Flyingaround)
    It's a small shop, and the other woman asked how my trip to london was, previous to that she only found out I was going to london because I was walking down the street in front of her and she said where you off too (This is a woman I havent really talked to in morrisons) Yet she remembers me again a week later when I was instore and asked how my trip was.
    Now the other girl is always talking and asking if I'm alright because she is actually chatting to me, what's wrong with that. If someone talks to me seriously, I am going to talk back. especially because I get lonely and this is the only place I meet people and they remember me
    If I can't have this little bit of chat then I have won't have much left
    So get some mates? Easy. Done. Good night.
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    Seriouslt it's no big deal, she was probably laughing about something else. And even if she was laughing at you- big whoop. Stuff like that happens to almost everyone sometimes. You have to ignore things like that.. Some day you'll look back at this and realise how silly it was to pay it this much attention
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    To remind all those with morals and to all those who love all children, that this David J. Glass Esq. PhD would giggle & laugh at me while waiting to see the judge. Shortly after this attached letter dated 2-12-2012 was received by the community of Malibu, CA this David J. Glass Esq. PhD conspired to injure a 3rd party (myself) , suborned perjury and falsified evidence just before he closed down his practice and went to FMBK Law.The CA State Bar has just received a 2nd complaint regarding this matter.

    Hollander

    2-12-12 Mr. Graham J Miller

    REGARDING CHILD ABUSE

    To The Principals of Malibu Elementary Schools and To Whom it may concern within the LAUSD and SMMUSD administrations, Directors or other persons.
    Dear Sir Madam or MS,

    I am writing to you firstly as a parent. I have a child in a Malibu public school. I am also writing as a Citizen, and therefore concerned in a more global manner with issues that I personally find disturbing and relevant. I believe a possible failure to perform to ethical codes of several professions, let alone what any normal person may find to be reasonable is about to, and could in the future lead to embarrassment, public consternation and at best a complete lack of faith ,trust and confidence in the above agencies.

    I have recently been informed by my daughter Lily-Jane Faith Miller that her mother has taken her out of Callahan elementary (Northridge); and she is now at some school in Malibu district. (Grade 2)

    My reasons for my concern follow.

    Within the Malibu school district there is a teacher, (C Cullen) who has accused her ex-husband of two counts of sexual abuse of their son, and 5 other counts of abuse of their son (11). This alleged abuse according to Ms. Cullen and her Attorney took place over the past 5 years.

    I would like a notation in my daughter’s file that she is never to be placed in class with the above person as her “(my daughters)” teacher. I apologize in in that I amenable to provide more details on my daughter’s whereabouts (school) but her Mom has not provided that info. I’m sure Dr Jacob the principal at Callahan would be able to assist.

    In MS Cullen’s divorce and custody case she utilized the services of a Mr. D Glass Esq.(Attorney) Mr Glass is also a PhD in Psychology .Mr. Glass was also utilized by the mother of my daughter, Lily -Jane in my own divorce and custody matter. Mr. Glass a Psychologist/ Attorney and mandated reporter saw fit to bring allegations of sexual abuse of a child and 4 allegations of other forms of abuse of MS Cullen’s son Sammy before family court. These all were investigated by the Police DCFS, and the District Attorney. They were found to be without either Medical or Credentialed 3rd party verification and closed therefore as unsubstantiated. These allegations were brought by MS Cullen via the services of Mr. Glass and occurred regularly before the summer school break on a yearly basis. MS Cullen had also recently remarried a Mr Brian Winsick another Teacher and coach in the Conejo Valley. Their marriage took place just prior to the allegations beginning.

    I will now outline my concerns and reasons for the request of the notation in my daughters file.

    It is my belief that the relationship between this teacher Ms. Cullen and her attorney and my own ex-wife and the same attorney is cause for reasonable concern. That to avoid any unfortunate incident where god forbid I was to be accused by my daughter’s mother of something similar as MS Cullen accused her ex-husband of it is imperative no establish able link is in place as could lead to suspicion of collusion. The worst case scenario that Ms. Cullen at some time becomes my daughters teacher and subsequently claims are made that perhaps my daughter had inferred to MS Cullen that I had abused her ( Lily-Jane) and MS Cullen then could relate this to my daughters mother through their mutual attorney, or contact at school is beyond horrific. I feel the separation of my daughter and this teacher protects LAUSD/SMMUSD and my daughter and me.

    In a more global sense I am concerned that a teacher married to another teacher and coach and an attorney who is also licensed as a psychologist made no attempt to make aware the LAUSD or the SMUSD of their concerns. (Two allegations of Sexual abuse and five other allegations of abuse.) Surely some ethical codes of their respective professions would demand other relevant or parties who could be impacted be advised.

    When a teacher finds the resources to pay $500 an hour to a Beverly Hills Attorney for 5 years surely there is a need for verification that such allegations will bring in terms of the expenses the County and State will bear during the protracted conflict. Especially if the accused has been made indigent by the continued claims and has suffered stress or work issues stemming from such accusations and is no longer paying taxes.

    As a parent I certainly would be outraged if I knew my child’s teacher was aware of a legitimate abuse situation and if, as in this case it included Sexual Abuse allegations and that teacher did nothing to bring attention to it as could protect other children I would expect answers. Specifically why and how a person(s) (2 Teachers, (Coach), An Attorney/Psychologist) would go ahead and consciously disregard accusations of such a serious nature, and then they having brought these allegations before family court and the district attorney go ahead and let other parents arrange activities with the person they were accusing of abuse in a manner as would expose other children to the accused.

    What is more disturbing and I expect the press will find disturbing is that repeated allegations of this nature are often utilized in family conflicts and that this is acceptable is in fact a failure of morality within our society. I believe this failure may have had a profound societal impact.

    That the failure of an application of evidentiary standards as are normally applied in criminal matters may have allowed credentialed persons possibly with questionable motive to use family court in a manipulative and deceitful way to achieve their own ends appears to me to be worthy of consideration.

    This epidemic of claims of abuse of children caught in such situations, (family breakups) versus children, who suffer actual abuse , desensitizes the general public and governmental agencies and allows real and dangerous criminals to hide and operate with virtual impunity in our society. It is beyond Peter and the Wolf it is an ongoing crime against humanity. To falsely perpetrate something that I believe leads to what we are now facing in the LAUSD and SMMUSD and may have exacerbated, perpetuated and indeed by lack of action condoned events and actions that possibly has led to emotional; mental and even physical harm to any child is heinous.

    I believe because of the actions as I have described many prior red flags have been ignored in many abuse situations and much suffering and harm and expense could have been avoided if a less commonplace attitude of children was the norm.

    Indeed in the immediate situation with (C Cullen, B Winsick )either the allegations were scurrilous and a product of vitriol, and an attorney(PhD Psych) with who knows what motivation (7 Claims) and that these claims were worthy of public expense .Or these persons were aware the claims they were bringing were false and therefore not worthy of reporting to LAUISD/SMUSD or other parents.? The alternative is an admission of negligent lack of reasonable due diligence and surely a great lack of concern for the school both pupils and other teachers and parents has been flagrantly displayed in total disregard for the safety and welfare of minors. Whether this is or should be a concern for the bond holders of these persons I do not know. Mr. Glass, Glass family Law and former associate of (Kolodny & Anteau) One of the most respected family law firms in the United States (Mel Gibson Getty, etc.) has been investigated by the CA Bar already in this matter and while the complaint was not upheld a letter suggesting the possibility of civil redress was issued by them.

    The APA also found he did no wrong apparently within their own ethics code.

    The fact remains an Attorney/Psychologist and a Teacher and a Teacher/Coach surely have some duty to the community. The positions of trust and respect they are afforded should allow the general public a reasonableness within their expectation of propriety and protection of the innocent by such credentialed persons.

    Perhaps the LAUSD/SMUSD could incorporate or suggest to the CA Bar a cooperative relationship of a professional nature that would allow this protection to be afforded our children as well as draft a code for the LAUSD/SMUSD’s own employees in such situations.

    Certainly recent events could lead one to surmise that a better clarified way of maintaining the safety and welfare of our children, from both bonifide and false claims of abuse would be helpful. The harm that both real and imagined events can bring to families, as well as collateral persons and an institution such as children’s learning environment should be minimalized at all times.

    Sincerely Yours,

    Graham J Miller.

    885 Avenue of the Americas

    Penthouse 1A

    New York. NY. 10001
 
 
 
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