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    (Original post by FattyInNeed)
    Do you toss off to other girls other than your gf too?
    I did regularly, when I had a girlfriend, and most of my exes have admitted to fantasising about other men when masturbating. In fact, research shows that women more often than not fantasise about someone other than their boyfriend, though they don't tend to personalise it and it's generally just "some man".

    Men, on the other hand, tend to be more personal and choose specific people to masturbate over: porn stars, friends, partners. Masturbating over other people is a fantasy. It's naughty. It's "taboo", for all that it's quite common. Half the reason we do it is because we are breaking a social norm and that adds a thrill to it. Please note that this is a generalisation and just cause you might not do the same thing doesn't mean the research is incorrect.

    It is weird that he is just offering up the information, though. Unless you asked him, of course. Either way, I wouldn't be offended or upset.
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    Sweet. Another retarded question.
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    My best mate does it all the time. He says he instinctively thinks exactly how a girl is going to be like in bed when he meets her- and can get erections by just looking at some girls.

    My sexual lust is reserved for my gf though.
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    (Original post by James4d)
    My best mate does it all the time. He says he instinctively thinks exactly how a girl is going to be like in bed when he meets her- and can get erections by just looking at some girls.

    My sexual lust is reserved for my gf though.
    :lolwut: @ your mate.
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    ahhhh I guess it is normal BUT I would feel uncomfortable if I knew my boyfriend did it about real life girls that he knows an sees on a regular basis

    I don't do it about guys no, and while in a perfect world guys would only think about their gf, lets face it, that will never happen....
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    Not only is it perfectly normal, but it would be abnormal if he didnt do it.
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    (Original post by James4d)
    My sexual lust is reserved for my gf though.
    Was that meant to be sarcastic? I actually laughed aloud when I read that and then scrolled down to see your picture...
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    Do you toss off to other girls other than your gf too?
    Yep.

    /thread

    How old is OP?

    Like 12?
 
 
 
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